"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Northern Lights Conference

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Theres a church conference in London, Ontario coming up in February, where a whole lot of teen youth leaders conform in a sweet hotel and stay the weekend.

Ill probly be attending, and want to know if there are any fellow DJ'ers out there also attending.

I went couple years ago...amazin time, so many broads..and you can skip most of the churchy crap if you want :D

Anyone goin?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That seems so oxymoronic...going to a religious gathering to pick up hot young chicks so you can fvck them and break their hearts.

Sounds like a good time. Wish I could be there.
 

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Originally posted by Jimbo2k
Theres a church conference in London, Ontario coming up in February, where a whole lot of teen youth leaders conform in a sweet hotel and stay the weekend.

Ill probly be attending, and want to know if there are any fellow DJ'ers out there also attending.

I went couple years ago...amazin time, so many broads..and you can skip most of the churchy crap if you want :D

Anyone goin?
don't be an ass.
 

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Most of the teens that go are just like me...going for the experience of meeting other teens around Ontario.

Its not all about spirituality anyway...its for fun. Sure, theres a mass or 2 and theres "leader workshops" but the rest of it is meeting people, going off with your friends...

Theres also an indoor pool and a dance floor with a DiskJockey for the Saturday night :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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misunderstood??

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This should be in the wingman forum. Unfortunately though, I think odds are slim though for you to find someone going from this site
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by misunderstood??
This should be in the wingman forum. Unfortunately though, I think odds are slim though for you to find someone going from this site
I was actually gonna put it in the wingman forum, then thought the traffic of teens that come to this forum are probly small - and since this is a teen conference, I thought I'd put it in with the highschoolers :)
But yea, this thing is actually huge, teens from all over Essex County conforming at one hotel, yet noones going and worse, noones heard of it! Ah well.
 

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I'm not going to this one, but I can definetly relate. I've been going to something similar a few miles south. Episcopal youth conferences. I don't even really believe in god, but I have made so many friends and picked up numbers from so many fine HBs that I just keep coming back anyway! It's awkward, but still kinda fun.
 

Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by SnatchJP
I'm not going to this one, but I can definetly relate. I've been going to something similar a few miles south. Episcopal youth conferences. I don't even really believe in god, but I have made so many friends and picked up numbers from so many fine HBs that I just keep coming back anyway! It's awkward, but still kinda fun.
Exactly....too bad you arent goin to this one :p
 
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