"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

North Jersey/New York DJS

D

DJKid

Banned
Joined
Sep 21, 2007
Messages
109
Reaction score
3
Location
NY/NJ/CT Tri State
Hey I'm looking to go out with some peeps interested in practicing game. I'm in North Jersey close to NYC so there's a lot of places to hit up.


Anyone who's interested please respond and we can set something up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

L

Lord Shinra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
341
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ
I noticed up here in North Jersey, they run in packs of 3's.

Could use another DJ to help each other out. Where in N NJ you live?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

S

SickAgain

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 9, 2007
Messages
414
Reaction score
11
Location
Orange County
I don't understand how anyone can afford to live in New York comfortably. With what I make I'd be spending half my check on rent. Who wants to do that?
 
L

Lord Shinra

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2007
Messages
341
Reaction score
2
Location
NJ
SickAgain said:
I don't understand how anyone can afford to live in New York comfortably. With what I make I'd be spending half my check on rent. Who wants to do that?
Click to expand...
Depends. In NJ, its *cheaper* than in NY. Not by much cause property taxes rape you, but food/other misc. sh!t are somewhat cheaper.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top