"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
North carolina
- Thread starter Sp1kez
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lost
Master Don Juan
its a group of guys that go out and do this seduction stuff.
I dont live in NC tho, i live in SC, but thats a Virginia Carolina group (mostly NC). so should help.
hope that helps.
later
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Sp1kez
Any DJs from NC want to meet in the Raleigh area? If you live in NC post here so that we can set soemthing up...My friends are all AFCs!!!!!
How far are you from the Duke campus? I'm planning on visiting sometime and I don't want to hang out with chumps the whole time. We should definately go sarging together. If you are close to the Duke campus, I'll let you know when I'm visiting and we can meet up.
h2o
Banned
yeah, I talk to one of the guys in the VAC lair also
awesome, we gotta sarge soon