"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Normal American or white girl practice?

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nando said:
What do you think of Houston as a place to live man?
Uh oh, 5 of these cities are in Texas

25 Fattest Cities
Rank City
1 Houston
2 Philadelphia
3 Detroit
4 Memphis, Tenn.
5 Chicago
6 Dallas
7 New Orleans
8 New York
9 Las Vegas
10 San Antonio
11 El Paso, Texas
12 Phoenix
13 Indianapolis
14 Fort Worth, Texas
15 Mesa, Ariz.
16 Columbus, Ohio
17 Wichita, Kan.
18 Kansas City, Mo.
19 Miami
20 Long Beach, Calif.
21 Oklahoma City
22 Tulsa, Okla.
23 Atlanta
24 Charlotte, N.C.
25 Baltimore
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hm.


Maybe they thought you have a nice ass.

You get compliments on you ass a lot?
 

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I lived in Oklahoma City for one year and other than that have lived in or around New Orleans my whole life.

If you wanna see some of the most gorgeous girls youve ever seen in your life, take a trip to N.O.

The club/bar scene is top notch when it comes to HBs. And there are many many places outside the French Quarter, which is for tourists and thugs.
 

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NSUballer said:
I lived in Oklahoma City for one year and other than that have lived in or around New Orleans my whole life.

If you wanna see some of the most gorgeous girls youve ever seen in your life, take a trip to N.O.

The club/bar scene is top notch when it comes to HBs. And there are many many places outside the French Quarter, which is for tourists and thugs.
I heard there's a lot of racism in N.O., is this true?
 

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racism against who?

I was walkin across the street the other day and some black guy called me a "stupid a$$ white boy."

So what exactly are you referring to?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nando

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NSUballer said:
racism against who?

I was walkin across the street the other day and some black guy called me a "stupid a$$ white boy."

So what exactly are you referring to?
everyone against everyone, blacks against white, white against blacks, blacks against mexicans, etc.
 

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nando said:
everyone against everyone, blacks against white, white against blacks, blacks against mexicans, etc.
Who has the most power to make their racist feelings disrupt the lives of others... ? hmm? I think we all know..

All humans are racist but the ones with the most power do the most damage because of it.
 

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DonGorgon said:
Who has the most power to make their racist feelings disrupt the lives of others... ? hmm? I think we all know..

All humans are racist but the ones with the most power do the most damage because of it.
are you talking about the police?
 

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What is all this racism talk on here for?

I have not experienced any racism since I have been here, in fact I have recived much positive attention, escpecially from white women, and I hope it continues
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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