"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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noob question but anyway

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chick at work said to me "i thought you were coming to play poker.. i went cause i heard you were going" (even though we didnt even play poker saturday. I don't treat this chick like a friend at work) just a tease huh?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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we got busy with customers all the sudden. To be honest, i got caught off guard
 

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verysuave said:
well, next time i see her, im going to qualify her. Say something easy like.

"we might play poker again, you can come play if you can count between 1-10"
thats pretty good

verysuave said:
well, she said she was "seeing someone" like 2 months ago.. so i stopped paying attention to her.
That was 2 months ago, they probably broke up.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well, next time i see her, im going to qualify her. Say something easy like.

"we might play poker again, you can come play if you can count between 1-10"
 

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well, she said she was "seeing someone" like 2 months ago.. so i stopped paying attention to her.
 
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