"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Noob Here!

Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I would like to tell you abit about myself.

First, I am kind of a newbie here however I have skimmed through the bible.

I am slightly above average in looks with a really good dress sense and alot of mates with the popular people. I have recently left school and got a job and keep in touch with all the boys however don't speak to too many girls.

I am one of the most loud lads when around just the lads also when out I just don't have the balls to talk to girls and feel awkward around all girls.

I have never had a proper girlfriend and I am still a virgin.

Where is the best place to look to help my situation and what are the best things to do in my situation.

Any help will be appriciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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COD

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what kind of help?

research, getting laid, getting a girlfriend, seducing chics at school, online, with a cell phone, one liners, phone game, day game, parties chics 101.
 

Captain

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You need to take small steps to get rid of the approach anxiety.

Go out and say hi to everyone you come across. At least 10 people a day for a week. Hold eye contact. When I was trying to get rid of my approach anxiety, I was saying hi to about 60 people a day for a week. I used to feel weird when I said hi to a stranger, now I feel weird if I don't say hi.

Then start conversations. At first, it may be hard, but ask for their opinion on something. It's easy and non-threatening. "Hey, can I have your opinion on something?" And go from there. Try to make the opinion opener sincere and interesting. Do this to 5 women a day for a week. More if you can.

If they seem interested, ask their name and go from there. If you would like to see them again, get their phone number. Either get rejected or get the number.

The opinion opener I mentioned above starts the conversation. If you are interested in the girl, you need to get off the opinion opener ASAP, and start gaming them. Make them FEEL emotion, make them laugh.
 

frisco

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The best way to help you situation is to actually practice in field first practice getting as many numbers as you can average girls to extremely attractive girls then go from there, If your stuck on the approach then practice going up to random people and say hello with a smile, if somthing comes to mind to talk about then say it if not then keep walking. You can do this anywere Grocery store, Gas station, any place with people. its simple Mayne you figured out what your sticking point is, You get nervous and cant approach. Use your noggin to logicly figure out a way to practice killing that limiting believe. Once thats done then move on too the next step taling on the phone ect.
 
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