PopProducer
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 17, 2005
- Messages
- 32
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Some of the most obvious gestures and postures:
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ARMS CROSSED: When people feel unconfortable or in danger, the unconscious way to protect themselves is crossing their arms. Some girls even do it while holding their purse against the chest. NEVER approach someone [and less proppose her something] in that position. Move back a few, open your arms and make her talk until she feels comfortable again and changer the position of her arms.
Salesmen know this. Never try to sell something to a client that crossed his arms.
Watch also for more subtle ways of doing this like holding a bottle in front of them with both hands.
Hint: if the temperature dropped 20 degrees she's propably cold, not defending herself.
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POINTING WITH THE FEET: Go to a party and watch people's feet. When we feel attracted to someone we unconsciously point our body to that person. We have learned not to stare directly, but our feet tell the truth about who are looking at... Again, if a chick doesn't seem to notice you but her feet and body point to you, approach her. If they point to somebody else be cautious (specially if they point to one of your friends). Be more careful if she keeps the feet pointing to somebody else while talking to you for a while. If she starts poingting at you, go ahead, you're DJ's well.
Hint: Make sure she's not interested in someone who's right behind you and pointing to that person instead.
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LEGS OPEN/ CLOSED: Well, women are there chosing a man for opening her legs to him... So when they are with that man one of the signs she give him [again, unconscious] is keeping the legs open, like an invitation. If a woman is with the wrong man, legs keep crossed, and if she feels the man is dangerous she crosses the legs like making a knot (beware of this).
Again, other factors are relevant. If she's got a lot of space and keeps the leg closed it's not the same as if she's sharing the couch with 6 people and can barely move.
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ARMS CROSSED: When people feel unconfortable or in danger, the unconscious way to protect themselves is crossing their arms. Some girls even do it while holding their purse against the chest. NEVER approach someone [and less proppose her something] in that position. Move back a few, open your arms and make her talk until she feels comfortable again and changer the position of her arms.
Salesmen know this. Never try to sell something to a client that crossed his arms.
Watch also for more subtle ways of doing this like holding a bottle in front of them with both hands.
Hint: if the temperature dropped 20 degrees she's propably cold, not defending herself.
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POINTING WITH THE FEET: Go to a party and watch people's feet. When we feel attracted to someone we unconsciously point our body to that person. We have learned not to stare directly, but our feet tell the truth about who are looking at... Again, if a chick doesn't seem to notice you but her feet and body point to you, approach her. If they point to somebody else be cautious (specially if they point to one of your friends). Be more careful if she keeps the feet pointing to somebody else while talking to you for a while. If she starts poingting at you, go ahead, you're DJ's well.
Hint: Make sure she's not interested in someone who's right behind you and pointing to that person instead.
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LEGS OPEN/ CLOSED: Well, women are there chosing a man for opening her legs to him... So when they are with that man one of the signs she give him [again, unconscious] is keeping the legs open, like an invitation. If a woman is with the wrong man, legs keep crossed, and if she feels the man is dangerous she crosses the legs like making a knot (beware of this).
Again, other factors are relevant. If she's got a lot of space and keeps the leg closed it's not the same as if she's sharing the couch with 6 people and can barely move.
