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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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joe45

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any of you guys ever encouter a so called stuck up/snobby girl. hmm let me describe the situation.

this is in a college setting ,lets say you see a gal classmate who happens to be in 4 out of your 5 class. since you see her a lot(meaning everyday) you decide to enage small talk with her.

me: oh you already bought the text book already hey. how much was it?
her: 80 bucks
me: i started reading the short story text in our english lit class. its really long and boring and i don't think i understand the context
her:yea me either
me: is this your last class of the day
her:yea
me: i don't really undestand Mr. F he has a really thick accent, he also doesn't seem to now how to teach he just reads off his notes
her: yea i now
me: see ya tommorow and bye
her:bye

have you guys ever encoutner girls who were like this. they don't seem to want to talk to you, even tough its just casual small talk and nothing sexual. hmmmm just making friends and nothin really more. i also observed this gurl would be non talktive towards me, but i notice her being more talktive with another CBC guy-who happens to be on chubby and very average looking. hmmmmmmm.

i never encoutnered a stuck up guy ,but with girls yes. to be even more specific they tend to be CBC chinese girls. i wonders with it. maybe i don't dress trendy and cool enough, marks wise i'm only a 70's% student. maybe that not good enough for the ambitious CBC girls.

have not encountered it with a white girls yet they tend to be more talktive and friendly-even if they aren't interested or have a bf.

any guys encounter snobby, stuck up and non talktive girls. what do you think is the main reason? you see em talk to other people and being quite friendly with them ,but with you its like ah nothin.

its not every girl. its just some CBC chinese girls have been like that towards me. i really wonder why.they weren't rich , or very good looking either just plain average.
 

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I got set up with a snobby chick once. I dont know what my friend was thinking. This was a blind date. It was hell. We went to Chilis for drinks. I couldnt find much life in her, she didnt talk much, she just looked like she was bored, so I was trying to converse and most of the time she was like..OOOOKAAAAYYYY. We both had one beer, and before we got our appetizers, I told the waiter to bring me the bill. I was done.
Her attitude did a complete 360, she started smiling and started giving me IOIs like her life depended on them. SHE became the entusiastic conversationalist, telling me how great it was to meet me and that I should call her to go out again sometime. 5 minutes earlier she was an condescending ice queen. All I can tell you is don't put up with it for too long, but dont jump to quick conclusions about her, she may be gaming YOU

Its all in good, good fun.
 

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snobby girls are 1 second away from openning up, you just have to turn it around on em, get them to validate themselves to you at least once, on absolutely any subject and you'll have stolen the power away
 

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Maybe you were boring her?

Maybe she isn't worth talking to?

Maybe your conversation was just too common of what every college girl hears?

Maybe your ugly, average, or fat and just not her type, so she was unresponsive?

Maybe she was tired or had something else on her mind?

Maybe you should work on your conversation skills?
 

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A few years ago when I managed an apartment complex this blonde showed up to visit a tentant that lived there. When she was getting out of her car I looked at her and said dam what a hot looking babe but as she walked by me while I was waterinng the bushes she never even looked my way walked like a stuck up bi*th and I said to myself what a a cold *****.

Well, a couple days went by and he tenate she was visiting comes over to me and ask if I saw the blonde girl who drove the mustang the other day? I said yes but kept my opinion to myself about here and she says she thinks I'm hot and walked away.

It was like 5 months later I finally started dating this babe she ended up being a real sweetheart and a good lay.

You just never know with girls sometimes their hit with shyness even though they are hot and considered 8's and 10's but it doesn't mean a great conversationist and extrovert either it just might be where being a man comes in take a risk go for it feel it out before making a judgement.

Just my opinion and hope this helps.

Gettinthere
 

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Sometimes you gotta face the facts man. She's not interested in you. All the excuses in the world won't change that. You don't know what kind of guy she likes, if she is w/ someone, etc. Just call it a loss. It's all part of the game.
"You gotta know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away and know when to run."
 
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