"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Non-std infection, prostatitis?

SmoothTalker

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Hey DJs. Anybody ever experience anything like this?

I've been having these symptoms for a while, and didn't really give it much thought until I heard about Urinary tract infections or prostate infections recently.

Now I get checked regularly for STDs and am definitely clean in that sense, so this isn't gonorrhea or anything.

Basically I feel like those guys in the Flomax commercials, only I'm about 30 years too younge to have BPH.

The symptoms I get are:
-feeling like I need to pee way too often
-little coming out when I try to pee/weak stream
-unable to fully empty my bladder (which is probably why I have to go so often)

Interestingly I don't usually have any pain, except for occasional burning after cumming, which is why I think it is a prostate infection rather than a bladder infection.

Also.. don't know how much thought I should give this, but occasionally my girlfriend says her stomach hurts, and this seems to happen much more often about half an hour after she swallows, so maybe it's from bacteria?

Finally, I didn't make the connection at the time, but I remember my symptoms being greatly improved a while back when I was on antibiotics after having wisdom teeth removed.

Anybody ever have anything similar to this? How was it resolved, what did the doctor's visit involve?

PS: I know a forum isn't the best place to ask this sort of thing. I have made an appointment with a doctor ASAP, but am just looking for advice in the meantime.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you can pass kidney infections and bladder infections thru sex.
you can pass strep throat thru sex.

here are a list of std's that could cause problems urinating and sex (pain or burning with/without either):
Chlamydia
gonorrhea
TRICHOMONAS
and pid in women

you can not self diagnose something like this.
both of you go to the dr.
 

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Well we've both been checked for STDs and are totally clean, and we are exclusive.

Still, I am going to the doc ASAP, and we'll see what he says.
 

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then it could be a kidney infection, which sounds most likely.

she could just be experiencing some muscle pain from over exerting herself during sex.

i am more worried about your symptoms.
 

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Thanks Penkitten, but any of you guys actually experience anything similar?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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If your sperm is looking a little greenish or yellowish. Then, its most likely a prostate infection.
 

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I've had this before.

Its cleared up with antibiotics specifically for the condition.

Nothing to worry about bro.
 

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Hmm.. can't say I ever recall my semen being odd colours, and I can't think of any foods that affect it, but to be honest I've never really thought about it too much.

My biggest worry is that I've had these symptoms for a long time (over a month), so I hope no permenant damage has been done.

Ah well, going to see the Doc on Tuesday, and there's not really anything I can do before then.
 

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Sounds like a prostate infection to me. Go to a doctor and have them do that finger up the butt thing, they'll tell you what it is for sure.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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