Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
IDk just keep trying. It took me two years to find a job. Start looking people in the eye and greeting them. That is an easy way to build confidence. I lost my confidence and am building it up. I understand you brother.
2 years? What's your major? I have two interviews next week and have no confidence lol.
Television....HAd good job for 20 years and layed off two years to get new one.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I think I will be able to get a job within a month, but I'm just paranoid and have bad anxiety.
