"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Non-American Women - best places??

logicallefty

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Fellas - Where can one go in America to meet or have a good chance of meeting a wide variety of single non-American women? Any nationality, I don't care, just not American or AmericanIZED. I know the general answer is probably "bigger cities", but where?

Where I live there aren't too many foreign women at all..

American women are really getting on my nerves. I would like to see what some of the others are all about.. you know, date a few before I die kinda thing! :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It's going to be difficult to find foreign women who live stateside who aren't "Americanized." You'll literally need to get to them as they're stepping off the boat.

I believe New York has the most variety. But you have to take into account why foreigners choose to set up shop in New York. Chicago use to be decent back in the 80's and 90's but it's become more and more mainstream popular. LA is... well.... LA is LA.....
 

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Thanks for replying man.. It sounds like a damn disease. Shoot, in a way it is.. They step off the plan and wahmmo.. lol

So what about going to a foreign country and meeting chicks? Any American dudes have any stories to share about that?? Maybe some guys who met some while in the military or on a vacation? And I don't mean that you have to have went there and found a wife to bring home.. I am just asking about dating them, what was it like in general to date a woman that was not sick with American disease? A woman who might actually still respect men for being men and still look at men as a dominant figure? Or, ARE they really that way??? Is the grass really greener?? Maybe it isn't.
 

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I have an affinity for women in Italy and Spain. They are usually strong and opinionated but still believe in many of the old world relationship values. They will take care of their men as long as their men are worth being taken care of. Personally, I believe that many "typical" American men wouldn't have much of a chance with them but that shouldn't be surprising since they usually have difficulties with American women. If you aren't a man of substance (true substance, not what you own) you would more than likely have a challenge sarging them.
 

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haaa..tired of the american women who claim their legal rights every now nad then,lol.......what happened to the pure inner gals there ? we need edgar hoover back ,lol to reform american women
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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White women are easy to please.They just want good sex and a comfortable life,some drama from time to time.

Latinas are the best looking women on earth but they can be MASSIVE,MASSIVE *****es.

I think white guys think Latinas are genuinley attracted to them but in reality is latinas only date black and white guys for money and will leave you in a heart beat for another latino with no money that just smooth talks her.

It's hard to be with latinas sometimes especially the carribean ones if you're not from there or black.

I don't see why white/black guys put them on a pedestal,they're *****s the ones that seek men outside their countrymen most of the time.In it for the money and the visa.

A black guy would have a much easier time dating and wifing up a latina..IMO.Unless of course you're speaking on an Argentine/etc..those are the same as white chicks.

Asian girls?Who cares?They're so boring and snobbish it's not funny.Latinas look better anyway & it's less culture shock.

Black girls?Too much drama and bs.I stay away and i'd recommend a white guy to stay away as well.

Most will not sleep with a non-black man for any amount of money.If you have a black fetish I suggest a Brazilian,Dominican or just any black hispanic girl.

Latinas and White girls are the easiest and the best women as far as i'm concerned and the only thing I go after.(I don't like mexican/native girls though)
 
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