“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Right some of you guys are gonna flame me for this but ive been thinking about this one for the past few days and am stuck for an answer!

If you're dancing with a gal on the dancefloor and you wanna bring her away from it for a while and chat (as its too loud on the floor!) is it ok to say:

C'mon ill buy ya a drink? (Maybe with a little C&F mixed in? e.g. 'Cmon ill buy u a drink... if youre good!)

After reading a lot of posts saying never to buy a girl a drink i obeyed this, but is my q debatable?

After all, if a girl likes ya shes not gonna walk away just coz u buy her ONE drink?! And by saying 'we'll go get a drink!' shows ur a decision maker and not some wuss (a wuss may say: 'can i buy u a drink?' OR 'is it ok if we get a drink?')

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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geez. i swear the answer to this is in millions of movies, and sitcoms. don't you watch tv? it is sooooo overused, but perfect for the situation anyways.

you say in a low, sexy growl (you can embellish your own tone here, i am just taking liberty), "let's go somewhere quiet". then you lead her to a quiet, dark corner. ta da!
 
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Yeah i knew id be kinda flamed for this one (just check my recent posts - im NOT an AFC! :))

Anyway in ireland this would seem creepy to the girl so the only other way would be telling ehr that we're going for a drink!

Think i may break this rule sometime.
 
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Originally posted by silverwex
Yeah i knew id be kinda flamed for this one (just check my recent posts - im NOT an AFC! :))

Anyway in ireland this would seem creepy to the girl so the only other way would be telling ehr that we're going for a drink!

Think i may break this rule sometime.
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it can't be creepy if it is sexy.

are just a creepy guy?

you have to build momentum, make her want to go someplace quiet with you, so that it seems like you stole the thought right out of her head.
 
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Best thing I do is simply grad her had and take her to sit down or somewhere quiter to talk.

This has never failed me :)

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Thanks guys, good stuff as usual.

it can't be creepy if it is sexy.

are just a creepy guy?

you have to build momentum, make her want to go someplace quiet with you, so that it seems like you stole the thought right out of her head.
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Hell no, im not creepy, actually im the total opposite.

Cheers.
 
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