"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Infern0

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If you are in no fap but you fvck, is no fap affected?
Nope.

You might encounter some dudes who take things too far saying dont have sex either but to me thsts BS. One of tge best things about nofap is it FORCES you to hunt down ***** and stops you being lazy when it comes to your sex life.
 

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Been doing nofap for 16 Days. Met a Girl and had great chemistry. But: terribly felt for her after the third date in two days. Felt near to oneitis, if I would not have known about it. Definately had to set my head straight after realizing what was going on.
Is that the downside of nofap? Anyone experienced something alike.
No. If i could speculate though, after 16 days your sex drive is probably higher than its been in a while and you are probably feeling more emotional depth than usual.

Days 1-50 are a bit of a rollercoaster for me, once i hit around day 50 my mind starts working properly and im in full control.

Dont put much stock in things that hapoen in the early days, just consider its part of the process
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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About ten days now. I was fapping more than I care to admit. I feel like my reaction around my babe is better. Porn had me too anxious and objectifying women. It interferes with my natural pace and reaction around them. I feel better.
 

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Nope.

You might encounter some dudes who take things too far saying dont have sex either but to me thsts BS. One of tge best things about nofap is it FORCES you to hunt down ***** and stops you being lazy when it comes to your sex life.
Yep to get your sexual needs met you HAVE to do something about it. Fapping is such a beta copout. Build your own sex life to the point that porn is pointless.
 
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