devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
i'm 1 day in and it sucks to not be able to fap lmao, i don't know how i'll make the whole month
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)
- Thread starter Infern0
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
The 'Alpha' litmus test.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
I want to fap.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Infern0
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Well don't. It's only been one day, have some self respect man.
TheMonkeyKing
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I'm game.Think the longest I've been is about a week since I was 12 years old.
Day two. Nothing much to report. Too hungover to feel anything below my neck anyway.
Day two. Nothing much to report. Too hungover to feel anything below my neck anyway.
JohnChops
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****ing a broke my streak yesterday and jerked it, day 1 it is then
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PeasantPlayer
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Week in and limp as hell, but have a sex drive
CuddleJunkie
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My balls are heavy as hell. This is literally a new feeling for me, kind of like going to the gym for the first time and discovering that you have muscles unknown before lifting.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
One thing i noticed after years of faping while trying not to fap. Every time i was thinking that i should not fap i would eventually fap.
So here is the tip: stop thinking at all about it and focus on other things .
Day 7 and still strong.
So here is the tip: stop thinking at all about it and focus on other things .
Day 7 and still strong.
Any noticeable positive signs from your 7 days of no fapping?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
This thread needs some porn pics to make it more interesting.
Here you go. Try to control yourself!
Here you go. Try to control yourself!
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
pretty sure that by the end of the month that'll be able to get us going lmaoThis thread needs some porn pics to make it more interesting.
Here you go. Try to control yourself!
I've recently done it for two weeks. The first 9 days I felt oke, perhaps indeed a bit better than normal, but after those 9 days I felt back to my normal self.
Now I'm on a 6 day streak, but I don't feel that 'change' as the time with the two weeks. I think for me mainly it's all in my head.
To be fair, I'm not a porn addict, I 'stumble' on it once a year or so.
Now I'm on a 6 day streak, but I don't feel that 'change' as the time with the two weeks. I think for me mainly it's all in my head.
To be fair, I'm not a porn addict, I 'stumble' on it once a year or so.
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
Already a month and a half without porn. Didn't miss it one bit.
I would fap once a week if didn't get laid.
A whole month? I will definitely do.
I would fap once a week if didn't get laid.
A whole month? I will definitely do.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
I'm in. The longest I haven't jerked off for was when I was for 13 years. Then I turned 13.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.