“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NoFap June Challenge

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We're advancing into summer, DJs.



I had a nice 13-day streak last month when I tried to go NoFap before PMO relapse.

Benefits I noticed in those 13 days:
-Tonality slightly deeper
-(Consciously) improved posture
-Accomplished more personal goals that I had set aside (see thread)
-Worked out harder in the gym (increased weights)
-Better eye contact
-Laughed more
-Increased T levels

I want to go 30 days for this month. If I make it I'll revaluate the 60 and 90 milestone for a full reboot.

This thread can be more about NoFap. It can be a thread of goals and what you want to accomplish this month. For example, do you never approach? Approach daily. If you need motivation, l like the NoFap subreddit...

I have a volunteer week happening this month. I'll be one of two guys there in a group of women in their young-mid 20s all week. The other guy is old af, bald, and a little creepy. My goal is to have fun, enjoy interactions, #close to get over closing anxiety.

Other goals are to 1) pass a prerequisite class for grad school that is still currently kicking my @ss (study harder than I ever have in life so I don't have to repeat this one), gain 2) bulk an additional 15-25 lbs 3) maintain frame when I see the ex-wife at my buddies wedding.

I started the other day, so today is day2 for me.

Who is in?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you know your test increases?
Jury is still out... Evidence seems inconclusive from the research I've done. Although I do know there are ways you can increase T levels.

"As stated, the preponderance of animal & human studies suggest that neither abstinence nor “too much ejaculation” have any effect on blood testosterone levels. However, there's evidence that ejaculation to the point of sexual satiation triggers multiple brain changes - including a decline in androgen receptors. and increases in estrogen receptors and dopamine-blocking opioids in several brain regions. Full recovery takes about 15 days and is quite apart from addiction-related brain changes."
Source: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/book/export/html/148
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Welp, I failed!:p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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After about 4-5 days without getting off, I start to get zits on my face, which is not normal at age 41. It has to be testosterone.
The variation of testosterone is drastic enough to be the cause of such changes. I could be wrong though.

No fap benefits are mostly placebo. The real issue with fapping is that its particularly coupled with porn which is psychologicaly damagiing. If you were just to fap, no porn, I doubt there would be any noticeable changes if you abstained other than increased aggression.
 

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The variation of testosterone is drastic enough to be the cause of such changes. I could be wrong though.

No fap benefits are mostly placebo. The real issue with fapping is that its particularly coupled with porn which is psychologicaly damagiing. If you were just to fap, no porn, I doubt there would be any noticeable changes if you abstained other than increased aggression.
Not necessarily aggression but increased energy and focus on life goals for sure. Also the "killer instinct" to close with girls becomes massive too.

I've noticed that these things tend to disappear when going no porn but still masturbating.

I guess from a biological perspective it makes sense to have more energy and drive if we're reducing frequency of ejaculation, because our DNA thinks we're not reproducing so we need to step it up.
 
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