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saying this, is like telling an addict "why dont you just stop drinking then" its such narrow mindedness, and one has no understanding of the different psychological - psychosomatic symptoms we all go through....

its almost like that feeling you get trying to convert a blue pill guy, and he just wont accept it.

Ive explained many times to the ignorance on here, the reason people Do NoFap....

when you fap(over years+year) your penis gets used to a certain grip and style to arouse it.
when you watch porn at least 5 times a week, your dopamine pathways are totally rewired to arousal.


thus the problem when you get a normal woman in your company, her kitty doesnt imitate your hand grip,
and everything about her doesnt imitate the total hardcore fantasies youve been watching the for the last 15 years..

Queue a gazillion problems, sloppy erection, acorn head, cant nut, no arousal.

but then when you return to the hand&porn you get instant diamond cutting big erections

obviously you want it the other way around. this is why people NoFAP, it resets everything. A woman only has to breathe down your kneck, and your ready to destroy her kitty.

its an amazing feeling
I jerk off all the time. I also have sex with real girls very often. I have none of these issues you speak of. Stop pretending you know everything, and stop quoting your pseudo theories as facts.
 

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I jerk off all the time. I also have sex with real girls very often. I have none of these issues you speak of. Stop pretending you know everything, and stop quoting your pseudo theories as facts.
My mate drinks all the time, still gets up functions the day after, he purely hasnt had enough mental stress to put him into addiction and the symptoms of addiction

please never become a counsellor or life coach, you'd be awful with your limited thought pattern
 

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I can echo some of the others and say I have noticed a difference in actual sex when I do No Fap. When I was younger, I masturbated very often and upon doing No Fap for the first time for a period of weeks I noticed that my erections were actually a better overall quality (harder and lasted longer) once I stopped masturbating as often (essentially 1-2 times per day).

At this point, I would say I masturbate about once a week, but I get sex fairly often, so it isn't a big deal one way or another. I don't believe there is any major difference between true "No Fap" and masturbating sparingly. I think you can certainly notice adverse effects from beating it to often though for sure.
 

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NoFap never made any sense to me. I've masturbated hours before going to have sex. And sometimes, after having sex, I'll still masturbate when I'm back home. I always suspected that the reason people don't fap is mostly cause they cannot get a woman, and think no fapping will improve their confidence or whatever. Which seems to be false based on my experience. Or at least, it is not the only factor to guys not getting laid.

I did attempt NoFap last week. Because I am extra busy with work, I also have not had time to meet a woman to curb my urges. It's week two and what a challenge this is. I will admit, that when you store your sex energy, you get a lot more awareness. And it has made me more friendly with women than I usually am. So it does work to an extent. But that's cause I'm also doing NoSex.
I tried it for half an hour. Doesn't work.
 

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My mate drinks all the time, still gets up functions the day after, he purely hasnt had enough mental stress to put him into addiction and the symptoms of addiction

please never become a counsellor or life coach, you'd be awful with your limited thought pattern
Masturbation is not even close to the same thing as an alcohol or drug addiction. It's actually healthy for your prostate.

Show me an actual M.D. who says masturbation is bad for you. I'm not going to believe the "bro science" on the Internet because some loud mouth wants me to.
 

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the premise is that it rewards poor results. It bleeds attention and steals will power. Fapping in moderate amounts is cool. Flapping in excess rewards poor performance in creating a sex life. Why not have sex with someone who desires you?
 

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When you get to be my age you don't call it Fapping, it's more of a Systems Check.
But I do believe a strict No-Fap rule if your on a bus.
Yes the pipes need to be periodically cleared. Its best for a will lady to clear them.
 

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when you fap(over years+year) your penis gets used to a certain grip and style to arouse it.
when you watch porn at least 5 times a week, your dopamine pathways are totally rewired to arousal.
Death grip can be a real problem. One way to overcome this if someone knows they can't follow through with no fap, is to get a sex torso. No more hand masturbation.
 

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If you have high testosterone & high sex drive then NoFap is total bullsh!t.
Young guys need a release, otherwise the inner psycho comes out.
Older men also need a release to regulate hormone levels.

Going months without an orgasm makes you more feminine in my opinion.
The Male species within the animal kingdom wasn't built for prolonged periods of sexual inactivity
 

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Yes the pipes need to be periodically cleared. Its best for a will lady to clear them.
Wet dreams will clear them if you NoFap and don't get laid fast enough.

Going months without an orgasm makes you more feminine in my opinion.
The Male species within the animal kingdom wasn't built for prolonged periods of sexual inactivity
One of the keys to keeping NoFap going is getting laid. NoFap is supposed to increase your confidence level, decrease approach anxiety, raise testosterone, and increase attractiveness to get your laid.

The male species was not meant to masturbate.
 

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When you get to be my age you don't call it Fapping, it's more of a Systems Check.
But I do believe a strict No-Fap rule if your on a bus.
I'm younger than you are and feel the same way. I mean if you are not going to reproduce anyway because of age or incel then you aren't really wasting any seed.

Most of the no-fap thing is good for teenagers or young adults with raging hormones where they are at a critical time to succeed and make it and find the right girl to partner up with. Once you are past a certain age then it's just a cope.
 

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Funny update: I hooked up with a girl today. And after near two weeks of not touching my ****, I blew my load in fifteen seconds. So take it as you will. I laughed my ass off.
 

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But enjoying sex for hours and hours purely for pleasure is traditionally seen as a degenerate mental illness reserved for witches and warlocks.
I see your point, but I'd say pagans, not witches and warlocks. Greek and roman were around earlier and having all kinds of degenerate orgies.
 

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Masturbation is not even close to the same thing as an alcohol or drug addiction
10 years in and out of mental health hospitals tells me M.D's dont know what there talking about, arent these the guys who push pills for pharmas?

My real life experience is the difference that makes the difference....

any kind of addiction or over exposure comes with issues.
 

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10 years in and out of mental health hospitals tells me M.D's dont know what there talking about, arent these the guys who push pills for pharmas?

My real life experience is the difference that makes the difference....

any kind of addiction or over exposure comes with issues.
Psychiatrists aren't real doctors.

I was referring to actual medical professionals.

But I really don't care about this topic anymore. You're free to your opinion.
 

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That's how reproductive sex is meant to happen. Blowing your load in 15 seconds in a highly-competitive sexual environment, before you get clubbed over the head by rival cavemen. Guys who came quickly knocked up more women.

Things are totally different nowadays of course. But enjoying sex for hours and hours purely for pleasure is traditionally seen as a degenerate mental illness reserved for witches and warlocks.
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I don't trust many medical experts anymore, especially knowing that a lot of them are not only insurance backed, they are basically pharma marketers. If I hear that "much masturbation is a good thing", I'm very suspicious and makes me believe these experts are pushing people to stay on a problem rather than finding a solution. Especially since we have far more therapists and even normal people seeing the problems of porn addiction that mirror that of alcohol and drug. Same symptoms almost too: unhealthy lifestyle, sedentary, lack of sleep, etc. I'm far more likely to trust a gym worker at this point. At least they are making your body stronger while advertising to you supplements.
 

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I don't trust many medical experts anymore, especially knowing that a lot of them are not only insurance backed, they are basically pharma marketers. If I hear that "much masturbation is a good thing", I'm very suspicious and makes me believe these experts are pushing people to stay on a problem rather than finding a solution. Especially since we have far more therapists and even normal people seeing the problems of porn addiction that mirror that of alcohol and drug. Same symptoms almost too: unhealthy lifestyle, sedentary, lack of sleep, etc. I'm far more likely to trust a gym worker at this point. At least they are making your body stronger while advertising to you supplements.
I doubt you've ever had a real medical problem if this is your opinion.
 
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