"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nobody seems to have hobbies or interests

diplomatic_lies

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Have you noticed very few people have any real hobbies or interests?

I mean out of 10 people, 1 person probably has an interest. Everyone else is just "I dunno", "hanging out", "partying I guess".

Just a curious thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah I know. It seems like when I ask somebody what do they do for fun or in their spare time the answer is always "drinking" or "hanging out." Sometimes they'll say "anything."
 

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Not me :)

Love to tinker with vehicles. Actualy I love Jeeps, I spend a ton of money and time buying aftermarket parts and modifying my toy. All summer long I'll head out to different states on weekends to camp and to play in the off-road parks, break $hit and go home to fix it :) Or what's even more fun is having to fix a broken axle or something right there on the trail miles from the nearest road with no possible outside help from any AAA :woo: Between me and my friends we carry enough tools and spare parts to fix anything short of an engine overhaul :D
 

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yeah you are write about that although i think in my experince more then 1 in 10 people have some kind of intrest. and more girls then boys seem to.

I am very much in to cycling, some girls i know seem to do sports, muscial instruments, martial arts and more!
 

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It's the difference between living and just existing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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my hobby is the desensitation of my mind, body, and soul through the ongoing usage of numbing powdery substances.
 
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more like the wrong women and listening to too much adult contemporary jazz
 
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ACTUALLY my hobby is smoking a lot of reefer. Yesterday I bought a QP, smoked 4 blunts and got laid by a 16 year old.

Today I plan on doing the same with the exception of sex, unless she comes over again.

Cocaine is really nice too though. Definately a different sensation. Having it around can get you laid by some real bad hotties!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have never seen a unification of races, sexes, and overall individuals than in the drug world. MLK jr, would have been proud!
 

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Beats Jangling discord anyday I suppose.

But surely Mr Marley is the man to trumpet a beautiful symphony.
 

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i enjoy having marathon masturbation sessions. But i dont usually tell people that.:cheer:
 

Not Quite There

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i did rollerblade for about the past 10 years and snowboard a bit 2, but my knees are absolutely ****ed, and i can't really do it anymore.

I really miss it, used to get me out the house and all over the country, my life is a bit empty without istright now, need to find a new hobby.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hunting! It's what real men do.
 

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Originally posted by 7 Virtues
Hunting! It's what real men do.
with a knife yeah

not some rifle with a high powered scope
 

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Please. Real men don't need any tools. Real men hunt with their teeth.

As for me I love history and playing strategy games. I love reading. I love speaking russian with anyone who wants to speak it with me. I also love hiking and my hobby used to be racing, until I realized that was too expensive a hobby ;)
 

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Start with yourself

I agree with you dip
But if you have many hobbies/ interests you meet heaps of other people with similar interests. Try joining some clubs if ur at uni there are some good ones around if not make one.

My hobbies at the moment include rockclimbing, wake boarding, cycling, kayaking and making home brew. I used to play football but messed my knees up.

cheers
 
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