"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nobody...NOBODY Wants You to Succeed

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The no one wants to to succeed is bull****. Horrible mindset. If you feel everyone is against you there going to be against you. If everyone loves you they want you to succeed. I mean we don't go around hoping people fail. But I agree on the part that you got to do this **** for yourself. And for asking girls advice for other girls. For this there are parts I listen to and parts I don't. I often ask girls about other girls just to see what they say. And once in a while ill incorporate it into what I do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Every friend and every person (Except my parents) and every RELATIVE have NEVER been genuinely HAPPY for me when I succeeded.

Even people OLDER than me who I worked with. They are happy for a split second for me then compare themselves to me when they were my age and feel like I am not ahead of them somehow and try to cripple me.

All my "friends" brag like little sh1t heads when they think they did better than me in something like exams or fitness. I always lie about my abilities to them because their judgment means jack sh1t when I am looking for a job or something like that. So I just feign weakness when in reality they are not aware of anything I've accomplished which is more than they could accomplish in a lifetime.

It's incredible how people treat you when they think they're better than you. They like me though, because they think I'm some scrub. I am 100% sure if I brought out all my awesome abilities they'd freak and start bashing me. Not that I'd care, but its funny when they see my name in the newspaper or finally come over my place and find out I'm really loaded and not some paper pusher they think I am. Its hilarious...I actually get a high off of being able to play those fools.

yeah I need better friends. But at this point of my life (20s) I've come to realize people are just like this. Even from grade school days it was like this and its never changed.

Oh yeah, if you know a lot and brag about it and people find out they will bug you to hell to get you to do their sh1t. So that's another benefit of not bragging to these losers desperate to call them your "friends." Only display your talents to your boss and people who really matter for your future. Showing off to everyone else will only hold you back.
 
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