"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nobody...NOBODY Wants You to Succeed

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The no one wants to to succeed is bull****. Horrible mindset. If you feel everyone is against you there going to be against you. If everyone loves you they want you to succeed. I mean we don't go around hoping people fail. But I agree on the part that you got to do this **** for yourself. And for asking girls advice for other girls. For this there are parts I listen to and parts I don't. I often ask girls about other girls just to see what they say. And once in a while ill incorporate it into what I do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Every friend and every person (Except my parents) and every RELATIVE have NEVER been genuinely HAPPY for me when I succeeded.

Even people OLDER than me who I worked with. They are happy for a split second for me then compare themselves to me when they were my age and feel like I am not ahead of them somehow and try to cripple me.

All my "friends" brag like little sh1t heads when they think they did better than me in something like exams or fitness. I always lie about my abilities to them because their judgment means jack sh1t when I am looking for a job or something like that. So I just feign weakness when in reality they are not aware of anything I've accomplished which is more than they could accomplish in a lifetime.

It's incredible how people treat you when they think they're better than you. They like me though, because they think I'm some scrub. I am 100% sure if I brought out all my awesome abilities they'd freak and start bashing me. Not that I'd care, but its funny when they see my name in the newspaper or finally come over my place and find out I'm really loaded and not some paper pusher they think I am. Its hilarious...I actually get a high off of being able to play those fools.

yeah I need better friends. But at this point of my life (20s) I've come to realize people are just like this. Even from grade school days it was like this and its never changed.

Oh yeah, if you know a lot and brag about it and people find out they will bug you to hell to get you to do their sh1t. So that's another benefit of not bragging to these losers desperate to call them your "friends." Only display your talents to your boss and people who really matter for your future. Showing off to everyone else will only hold you back.
 
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