The ability to make her have extreme emotional fluctuations. It is the first guy that she becomes obsessed with. Its usually the first guy she "falls in love" with. Sex is the thing that hooks her usually.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, You Are NOT On Her High Score List
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You know that this means she won't attach any special meaning to you either.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
She could still attach special meaning to ME, but not the sex itself. I have no problem with that.
Like she could attach meaning to the time we spend together and Amy emotional connection we might make.
I don't quite follow. That sounds like the friend zone bro. If a girl has been desensitized to sex, its easier for them to leave any given man. A woman is supposed to bond with a man through sex. The way to her heart is by her vag ( in non broken women).
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I don't believe in love, and I know that a heart is nothing more than a blood pump, so I guess we just see things differently.
If she wants to attach to people through sex, more power to her, but I don't assign any special meaning to it. It's just a hole.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
