"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No words for this...
- Thread starter DJ Logic
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
well I'm glad to know I'm not the only one with that fantasy.....
WTF DID I JUST READ!!!! but anyways whatever floats your boat
WTF DID I JUST READ!!!! but anyways whatever floats your boat
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I call trolling.
That seems to be one of those "send in your question to the expert" and she'll answer it in the newspaper type columns.
That pic is NOT her, it's just some random pic. The "person" with the old guy fetish is anonymous. (at the bottom, in the statement about sending in your questions, it says to NOT send attachments)
That seems to be one of those "send in your question to the expert" and she'll answer it in the newspaper type columns.
That pic is NOT her, it's just some random pic. The "person" with the old guy fetish is anonymous. (at the bottom, in the statement about sending in your questions, it says to NOT send attachments)