"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No whey protein shakes?

Fender

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Hey guys. I just started working out and needed some nutrition advice.

Do you guys know any good recipes for making a good pre/post workout shake without using protein powder?

I'm a student and I don't exactly have enough cash to dish out a ginormous jug of whey. (I live in Hong Kong, they charge like a 100 bucks for a jar....bastids'). And if I can live without it, I'd rather not use it.

Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Heizen

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Have you tried ordering online? I can get a 5lbs tub for the price I can get a 2lbs tub offline.

You could always try something I make occasionally.
8oz milk (2% or skim, your decision)
2-3 spoonfuls of natty peanut butter
1 spoonful of dextrose or 2 scoops of 'Instant breakfast' by carnation.
1 scoop of group up oats.

Put some ice cubes in, stick it in a blender. I don't remember the exact stats but it's something like this:
65ish grams of protein (Less if you don't use instant breakfast)
400-550 calories (" ")
I forget how many carbs it has. But it's a good mix of fast burning and slow burning carbs.

I used to use this as breakfast when I didn't have time to cook eggs or get some oatmeal going. Just realize that it has a fair amout of calories (A combination of the dex or instant breakfast and the peanut butter).
 

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Follow Heizen's second choice. Its the best decision buying online will have you facing huge shipping fees, hense you live in Hong Kong.
 

i1t4yomindi

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I'd really make an effort to cook some eggs and eat them first, then have the shake that Heizen recommended. Reason being, protein is what you really need to have for post workout. In any case , I'd skip on the peanut butter. You already have dextrose and oats in there, no reason to mix it with fat. That'll take you to fat land real quick. Never have your fats and carbs together!

Aside from that, if you have time to cook, your next best choice is just to probably eat a full meal as soon as you can after working out.

Eat some steak, lean ground beef, or any other complete protein. Beef would be the best choice, but you can eat some whole eggs or maybe chicken if you want.

After you eat the protein, get down some quality carbs. Beans, whole-grain bread, whole wheat pasta.

Lastly, what I like to do after all of that is just eat a piece of fruit. Others might advocate against it because of the simple carbs but I dont think it could hurt you that bad since youre getting some quality vitamin.

The goal of the post wkrout meal is to get in some quality protein so the body can start repairing itself from a brutal workout. Don't stress too much about it if you don't have whey. It's not necessay but it is optimal if you have it.

Eat the meal as soon as you can (15-30 minutes after workout). But don't wait like 1-2 hours afterwards.
 
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Heizen

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I wouldn't say the peaut butter but there isn't much protein otherwise in that shake. It's not THAT bad considereing he just started lifting.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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