"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No TV or Stereo in the bedroom. Is that a problem?

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FM 3321

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I recently moved to a new place and now my computer which doubled as a TV/Stereo is in another room since the bedroom is too small for my desk and computer. Having that computer in the bedroom always worked well for me since it has a good sound system and it was easy to sit and watch movies on the bed. So I'm wondering what other "distractions" can you have in your room if it doesn't have a TV or stereo at the moment? I will get one eventually but for now I'd like to see what you guys do if there is no electronic entertainment in the bedroom.

I have a good collection of interesting, funny and sexual books in the room but I've only been here a week and NOT having a TV in there seems like a logistical problem. I could be over thinking this so I'd love to see your input.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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watch tv at the living a bit then "show her around the house" and do it slowly.
 
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don't feel the need to hide behind a tv or radio in your bedroom. you know what your bedroom is for and so does she. if she's willing to go in there, she's willing.

You can turn your music up loud enough to drift in the other room can't you?
 
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