No truer words could be spoken....

[REd-xL]

Don't make girls a priority. For example, your number one reason for clubbing shouldn't be to get laid, but rather to dance your ass off and have fun. If that's your perogative, imagine how much less time you'll be spending leaning against the wall at the club.

Girls should always come as a byproduct of whatever you do. Work out routinely to sleep better, feel fitter, and be happier, not to impress others. You only stand to further your insecurities because less girls care than you realize and there's always buffer people out there.

Blah, I don't know where I'm going with this, but let me leave you with these wise, cliched words:

"No one can love you until you learn to love yourself."

I wasted so much of my time pursuing girls that I never did things that were more meaningful, like learning to play guitar or skateboarding at a professional level. Sure, I had hella fun, but at the cost of bettering myself in the long run. Don't make my mistake, and keep the focus on yourself and your true passions.

~Rx

 

[McKindley]

I think its great that you feel like this, but hasn't this post been made a zillion times already with a little different wording? Don't we have a million posts about "live your life for you, not other people" or "girls aren't your biggest concern, living your life is, and girls just fit into it nicely?"

Oh well, maybe I've just outgrown this site.

 

[REd-xL]

Eh, people need to be reminded on a constant basis.

On that note, everyone should do a search for me and read all my old posts.

~Rx

 

[Saine]

REd, I seriously don't know how you do it but you're impressive. I've seen you before and read your past posts.

 

[madgame]

Dont mean to disagree..or well I do have to disagree in some way tho lol. I do work out and it helped me become more attractive, and well I could fool myself and say I only did it 4 myself but that`d be bull****. If it didnt make me more attractive to the other gender working out wouldnt be as important to me.Definetly not..I mean come on be honest.
Besides if I go to clubs I cant really say Im that much into dancing. I like to dance but if there are mostly guys I hate it lol. Yes I go to clubs to pick up chicks - so what?lol .....u know im just playing dude I just think ppl who say to themselves theyo nly go to clubs to dance or they only work out or dress good "for themselves" fool themselves. If there wasnt anybody else on this planet ud probably not put half as much effort in those things.

All in all I think ure right tho. U shouldnt make women ur main goal in life. First of all they aint thaaat important. Have fun with them all the time...find a steady girlfriend whatever..all ina ll u should focus on other things. Itll probably get u better chances with women ( some might disagree cuz some dj tools r helpful..definetly.but u know what i mean i guess) besides u wont get all those crushes on *****es u hardly know...

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by REd-xL
On that note, everyone should do a search for me and read all my old posts.

~Rx

uhh too late ?

maybe you have the full list of the ones you deleted?