“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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'No time to be timid' - a lesson from the historical Don Juan

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'You don't have time for this display, you fool,' he said in a severe tone. 'This whatever you're doing now, may be your last act on earth. It may very well be your last battle. There is no power which could guarantee that you are going to live one more minute...'

'Acts have power' he said. 'Especially when the person acting knows that those acts are his last battle. There is a strange consuming happiness in acting with the full knowledge that whatever one is doing may very well be one's last act on earth. I recommend that you reconsider your life and bring your acts into that light.

Focus your attention on the link between you and your death, without remorse or sadness or worrying. Focus your attention on the fact you don't have time and let your acts flowing accordingly. Let each of your acts be your last battle on earth. Only under those conditions will your acts have their rightful power. Otherwise they will be, for as long as you live, the acts of a timid man.'

'Is it so terrible to be a timid man?'

'No. It isn't if you are going to be immortal but if you are going to die there is not time for timidity, simply because timidity makes you cling to something that exists only in your thoughts. It soothes you while everything is at a lull, but then the awesome, mysterious world will open its mouth for you, as it will open for everyone one of us, and then you will realize that your sure ways were not sure at all. Being timid prevents us from examining and exploiting our lot as men.'

From: Journey to Ixtlan: The Lessons of Don Juan, Carlos Castaneda
 

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Dear Trader,
Mate,I think you got the wrong bloke.....Castinadas Don Juan was a Yaqui Indian shaman named Don Juan Matus whom he met in 1960 (Or so he said)....This guy has no real resemblance to our Don Juan a Spanish Grandee who lived a few hundred years ago.
 
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