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No Talking Game....how far to take it?

AFK Protector

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I was flirting majorly with the girl I used to have oneitis on. However, this time, she wanted my book, but I never let her have it, and that led to some minor kinoing, LOTS of teasing, and eventually led to, her saying she hates me. Here's how it went:

her: give me your book.
me: ::starts giving it, then pulls it away:: whoops. too slow
her: i want your book.
me: hey, it's MY book. Find your own...thief.
her: ::does semi-mad puppy face:: awww, c'mon.
me: :D

So then blahblahblah, we tease, and I put my head down, and she tries to get the book, and that led to some kino...started out aggressive....softened up. then she goes:

her: ::does sad puppy face again:: i hate you (jokingly)
me: don't hate, but hey, if you don't like me, lets not talk.
her: fine
me: ::mocking her:: "fine"

So then I start chatting with my buddies and she takes out her calculator....starts typing in stuff. We have a calculator convo...weird stuff. here it is:

her: you are ugly and weird
me: good going, you lame
her: yo momma
me: yo whole ancestral generation
her: so unoriginal
me: so fugly
her: ::sees it and starts cracking up::

So yea, she laughs for a while. Then we get up, she says something and I say to a friend, "hey...did you hear that? sounded like something....something.....FUGLY"

she hears this, laughs and keeps this smile/blush on for a few minutes and says, "fine, i can do this too." (meaning she can play this game too). How long should I keep up this game? Did I do good with this girl? I don't think she's ever been challeneged before, so she was experiencing some masculinity for the first time.;)

Yea, she's got a BF, and he's a football player, but a ***** when hes with her. I know him and we're buds, but not anything real close. I'm not real interesting in pursuing her. I just want to know if I did good or not and whether i should keep this up, as a sort of connection between us. (makes that animal within her want me...rawr:D ) Thanks again fellow DJs.
 

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I think your the one who messed up there. Why didnt you just give her the book
 

Abnigh9

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
ok thanks man. how did I mess up? well, i usually just give her anything she wants...homework...paper...you name it. I was trying to be a challenge. That's why.
Lol, but it seems like you ain't going out with this girl. Not until the next aeon.
 

HuuBinh

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her: give me your book.
you: give me a french-kiss.
 

Walk this Way

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There are better things you could have said, sure, but you did fine in terms of flirting.
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by Walk this Way
There are better things you could have said, sure, but you did fine in terms of flirting.
yea you did alright, but i guess it was even possible to do even better

dont worry, this stuff takes practice and getting used to
 

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i think everyone that posted here is a moron ... you did just fine, now continue to ignore her and she will start to become attracted to you .. make sure she works for everything you give her at this point, and start hinting to her that if you are going to do favors for her she needs to do them for you too, she'll know what you're talking about ... they always do
 

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Originally posted by MF28
i think everyone that posted here is a moron ... you did just fine, now continue to ignore her and she will start to become attracted to you ..
Like that is an exact science....
 

Abnigh9

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Originally posted by MF28
i think everyone that posted here is a moron ... you did just fine, now continue to ignore her and she will start to become attracted to you .. make sure she works for everything you give her at this point, and start hinting to her that if you are going to do favors for her she needs to do them for you too, she'll know what you're talking about ... they always do
:rolleyes: Ok scientist, we're all moron"s". We're too stupid. Let's all hear this man's knowledge out.
 

DankNuggs

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You did fine, don't go after girls with BF's especially BF's you know well...She probably being friendly, playing around...

You get the idea though...
 
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