"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No such thing as a quickie in the basement..

The Click

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Well fellas.. I have a problem.. I've got my time up.. I can last quite a while.. now.. I don't know how to 'get there' quicker.. There is no such thing as a quickie with me.. it's a major deal.. we're not taking detours, we're going the whole way.. What's my problem?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Docs

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Dont' have so much sex, and no rubbing one off. I'll tell you in a week, you'll be so horny, you'll explode.

-...Or that's the way it's supposed to be.
 

The Click

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So lay off sex and conventional masturbation? (sorry for taking me forever to reply) But is that it? I've gone a few days without either.. and I'm still the same when I have sex..
 

girlsarecrazy

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I feel ya man. Lay off the masturbation. Get her on BC, don't use a condom. Make sure she's STD free.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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