"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No Social Life

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I got a problem: I can't go out. Why? Simple. My parents don't let me go out at night and I live 5 kilometers away from town, in the middle of nothing (so I'm forbidden to walk till where I want to go).

I just refused another invitation to go out this night... What can I do? :(
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you retarded... what do u think you do? GO OUT ANYWAYS does your parents have to know your "going out with ur buddies to drink and do drugs" NO.. tell em your going to the gym and will be back later or just sneak out and get ride from your friend. Or you can do small steps then gain their trust so they let you go out.
 

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Originally posted by Toushi
I got a problem: I can't go out. Why? Simple. My parents don't let me go out at night and I live 5 kilometers away from town, in the middle of nothing (so I'm forbidden to walk till where I want to go).

I just refused another invitation to go out this night... What can I do? :(
Peter, he has integrity. Lying to your parents doesn't equal "cool."

I'd suggest that you stick with girls around your school. Attempt to do things during the day-light hours. In fact, i'm sure that MANY girls are in the same situation as you are! I'm sure in about 3 years your parents will allow you to have a night-life. But for now, try to plan things according to the daylight hours.
 

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
Are you retarded... what do u think you do? GO OUT ANYWAYS does your parents have to know your "going out with ur buddies to drink and do drugs" NO.. tell em your going to the gym and will be back later or just sneak out and get ride from your friend. Or you can do small steps then gain their trust so they let you go out.
You must love your parents......
 

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Re: Re: No Social Life

Originally posted by DJ4Real
Peter, he has integrity. Lying to your parents doesn't equal "cool."

I'd suggest that you stick with girls around your school. Attempt to do things during the day-light hours. In fact, i'm sure that MANY girls are in the same situation as you are! I'm sure in about 3 years your parents will allow you to have a night-life. But for now, try to plan things according to the daylight hours.
Yeah... You're right. I'll stick out with girls at day-light time.
As you said, some girls also have this problem, and the girl I'm after has the same problems, so maybe it won't be that bad. Thanks for the support...

@Peter_ Thanks for the advise, but as
DJ4Real, I have integrity. x)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you can't go to the action, bring the action to you.

In other words, invite friends and girls to your place.
 
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Originally posted by i am me
You must love your parents......
Actually my parents are the best cuz they trust me and I trust them. Which is why they let me go out all night and sleep over for few days at my friends house. I just hate the parents who seclude you from society and think everyone is a bad influence, you gotta learn sometime how to interact with different kinds of people and lucky for me my parents gradually made me used to it. So don't f*cking make assumptions and add retarded comments that's not helpful to the thread you AFC.
 

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
Actually my parents are the best cuz they trust me and I trust them. Which is why they let me go out all night and sleep over for few days at my friends house. I just hate the parents who seclude you from society and think everyone is a bad influence, you gotta learn sometime how to interact with different kinds of people and lucky for me my parents gradually made me used to it. So don't f*cking make assumptions and add retarded comments that's not helpful to the thread you AFC.
I don't hate you man, just calm down. It's just not cool to tell someone to disobey their parents tho. I see where you're coming from, just don't throw assumptions at me too

Like someone said, just go out during the day and maybe your parents will ease up if you earn their trust...when you say they won't let you out at night, does that count for dances too?
 

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Yeah, dances too... Here, dances often means alcohol and stuff. :rolleyes:

The only place I'm allowed to go is to the cinema or to have dinner out, but I'm always dependent if my father is in the mood to pick me up or not, 'cause if he don't, he won't let me go, anyways. I can only be at this places only till 0.00.
 
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