"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

No sh1t about it, when a girl likes you its clear as summer sky

Thread starter Who Dares Win
Start date Nov 21, 2012

Zerro

Master Don Juan

Nov 25, 2012

Mike32ct said:
Greasy Pig is also correct that game is often needed to push things over the finish line.

Game is what keeps you from shooting yourself in the foot after you've already got her attention. Rare (and usually rich and famous as well) is the guy who simply has women jumping into his bed without him having to game them at all.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.