"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No Sex Until Marriage?

MrS

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Hey guys, quick question.

With girls who don't want to have sex till they are married, is there a workaround with this or is it just wrong to try and dissuade them of this? What would a DJ do in this situation?

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Damian

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A real DJ will not try to find a workaround or a way to dissuade a girl from her own principles. This will only cause more frustration for you. Use take-aways and freeze-outs to make THEM want it more than you do. Turn the tables on them, and make them the initiators. If you can do that, then you've mastered LMR.

-Damian
 

biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by Damian
A real DJ will not try to find a workaround or a way to dissuade a girl from her own principles. This will only cause more frustration for you. Use take-aways and freeze-outs to make THEM want it more than you do. Turn the tables on them, and make them the initiators. If you can do that, then you've mastered LMR.

-Damian
Amen...
 
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