No sex on the first date, Yay or Nay?

[TheLadiesMan]

I've only done this 3 times in my life. All turned into great relationships, and lasting friendships.

Last night, instead of removing her clothes and getting her on the floor, we kissed and I said goodnight. I probably should of fvcked her hard, but something told me to be a gentleman. We have plans for this weekend, and when the opportunity pops up again, I'm going to give her a night she'll never forget.

 

[Metro3pilot]

you should have drilled that ass and then worried about the weekend later .... girlfriend material or not .... TAP THAT ASS WHEN IT'S THERE ...

the problem with this

when the opportunity pops up again, I'm going to give her a night she'll never forget.

you never know if and when it will pop up again ....


:rockon:

 

[Latinoman]

I've only done this 3 times in my life. All turned into great relationships, and lasting friendships.

Last night, instead of removing her clothes and getting her on the floor, we kissed and I said goodnight. I probably should of fvcked her hard, but something told me to be a gentleman. We have plans for this weekend, and when the opportunity pops up again, I'm going to give her a night she'll never forget.

What happens if between last night and the end of this weekend...she meets a Latinoman?


You might never get a second chance.

 

[white sox bill]

Have done many on first date. But I lose interest from there on.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

You need to nail her when the opportunity is there. That is when it is the most spontaneous, which is what broads like. The second time, she knows that you are expecting it, so if she was gonna play hard to get, you know, in order for you to "take her serious", she might well put up resistance.

 

[Phyzzle]

Oddly, I find that women who are really interested in me are very nervous about sex on the 1st or 2nd date. She puts up all kinds of guilt and excuses (LMR), and I usually give up and get nab her next week (no rush for me).

I just had sex last night for the 1st time with a woman on our 3rd date. She has high interest. The women who don't give a crap want to do me right away.

 

[afrojiggles]

mmmm....why not bang on day one,lol

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Exactly Phyzzle... she was a tad nervous. Just like getting their number, if they want to give it to me, I'll take it. I'm not going to ask for it, because I don't need to.

If she wanted to TRULY fvck, with NSA, all she needed to do was unbutton my pants. She wants a relationship, a lasting one, I can see it in her eyes.

 

[st_99]

Everytime I sexed a HB on the first meet, it never turned into anything serious. HB's that I've waited a bit, it became a relationship.. not sure if there's a correlation or not If you are looking for a relationship, it seems like sex on the first date seems counter productive.. I dont know, I could be wrong.

 

[edger]

I NEVER look at women any differently when I nail them on the first night, because why should I? She's a human being with a desire to get laid just like me. It's a BASIC necessity of life. It's as natural as needing air or needing a drink of water. Stop falling into the lame social convention that when women f*ck you the first night, they're "no good" and not relationship worthy. Get rid of that bullsh*t absurd mentality. When a woman f*cks you on the first night, you should be happy and grateful because it shows she's INTERESTED and DESIRES you, and now, after f*cking her on the first night, there's no more guessing games(most of the time) as to whether or not she's into you..so guys, consider a woman putting out and f*cking you on the first date a GOOD thing.

 

[STR8UP]

I NEVER look at women any differently when I nail them on the first night, because why should I? She's a human being with a desire to get laid just like me. It's a BASIC necessity of life. It's as natural as needing air or needing a drink of water. Stop falling into the lame social convention that when women f*ck you the first night, they're "no good" and not relationship worthy. Get rid of that bullsh*t absurd mentality. When a woman f*cks you on the first night, you should be happy and grateful because it shows she's INTERESTED and DESIRES you, and now, after f*cking her on the first night, there's no more guessing games(most of the time) as to whether or not she's into you..so guys, consider a woman putting out and f*cking you on the first date a GOOD thing.

Bravo!

For the life of me I can't understand why a guy would label a woman a "slvt" for having sex with him on the first date.

So you want her to play her little three date game so YOU don't feel like your new conquest might fukk any Tom, ****, or Harry? Pffft....

She waits three dates. That means she must make EVERYONE wait three dates, right? That means she isn't promiscuous. A good girl. HAHAHAHAHHAA

 

[st_99]

just to clarify, I in no way label a girl a ho or slut if we F*k on the the first date.. i'm just saying for whatever reason it never leads to anything other than maybe a few more lays. Its like you climax (no pun intended) too fast perhaps, like puting the cart before the horse. Then it fizzles out.

 

[( . )( . )]

Bravo!

For the life of me I can't understand why a guy would label a woman a "slvt" for having sex with him on the first date.

So you want her to play her little three date game so YOU don't feel like your new conquest might fukk any Tom, ****, or Harry? Pffft....

She waits three dates. That means she must make EVERYONE wait three dates, right? That means she isn't promiscuous. A good girl. HAHAHAHAHHAA

Holy sh!t STR8UP said something cool.

I probably should of fvcked her hard, but something told me to be a gentleman.

We call that social conditioning, nothing more than a simple distortion of reality, dont worry it will pass.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Like I said, this chic is into me. Her best friend told me that she's "old fashion" that I don't need to be so aggresive with her, because she's not that type of woman. She wants someone who's into her for more than just sex.

She had also told me that she was like that with the last guy she had liked, and he bolted. He just wanted sex from her, and when she didn't give it up right away, he left. She's also feeln kinda confused right now because she thinks that maybe she does have to sleep with a guy on the first date, if just to keep him around long enough to get to REALLY know him.

Whatever... she totally likes me, and even if I don't get aggresive with her, I flirt with her, and I know it's making her hot.

It's just a matter of time now....and for the clowns who think she'll go somewhere else for d*ck? LET HER!! 8) ....she can still come back to me for the great d*cking....just like all the other women in my life.

I'm TheLadiesMan for a reason. I ain't hurtn for it, it's served to me, even at 5am in the morning if I want. Don't get me wrong, I had to make A LOT of changes to be where I am right now, to get this stage in my life. Right now, it's good to be TheLadiesMan.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

It's no big deal either way... if you are inferring that a long lasting relationship is not possible if you engage in sex on the first date, I'd have to disagree. Too many other factors in the equation. My advice would be to deal with each circumstance by itself and avoid generalizing all first dates as the same... they most definetely are not.

 

[azanon]

I say always hit it as soon as its actually possible. Sooner>later.

Save the evaluation for later, but the evaluation of when you were able to get it is besides the point.