"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good god damn. I guess the grass is kinda greener on the other side. So I get out to this womans place on Saturday. She basically looked like **** when she picked me up from the airport because she just woke up. Turn off number one.
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Your first mistake was flying there.

Your second mistake was not turning around as soon as you saw THIS scenario.

If she was REALLY that excited about seeing you and wanting to get with you, she would have woken up hours in advance to get ready for YOU. She didn't, which means she didn't care enough to even give you a good "first" impression all over again.

At this point, you should have known that it was all going down hill.

She did KNOW at what time you were arriving to the airport, right?

And I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, MAYBE I would have stuck around for ONE day, but after all of that... why did you hang around so long??? Good lord.

And why did you apologize for being mean? Don't be sorry for being honest. She should be sorry to you for making you waste a whole week of your time. That isn't cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She texted me a bunch of bs yesterday. Asking me if I have a woman. Told her nothing serious at the moment and that I've just been talking to a few. She said that makes her mad and why would I try to talk to her if I was talking to other women. Told her I don't know what the hell she wants from me so whats the point. Says she just has too much crap going on and thought I just want sex. lol. Yeah I'm gonna fly out to see a girl just to have sex with her. Give me a damn break. I can stay at home and pick up some girl or get with one of the ones I'm talking to. Her head is just a spinning record. lol. Yeah tell me your mad that I'm talking to other women but then say you're not sure what you want because you have so much crap going on. lol. Damn crazy broad. Full of ****.
 
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cognac said:
Good post Joekker. Unfortunately I told her I was sorry for being mean myself, to which I got no reply .....
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WHY do that ? It just fed into the stream of emotional muck that she feeds on.
Your 'apology' also probably reinforced her belief in her beloved victimhood ...., "Cognac bad, me good. "

Toss this one in the bin marked "Stupid experiences".
 
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She replied back the next day Jophil. I sent the message late at night and she was at work. Why the hell would she ask if I had a girl when she replied back to which I replied not at the moment, just been talking to a few, and say that it makes her mad that I am talking to other women because i don't know what the hell she wants from me and then tell me she has too much going on and she doesnt know what her head wants. lol. crazy woman.
 
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Seriously should I call her out on the fact she said she is mad I'm talking to other women yet doesn't know what she wants from me? It's just absurd to tell me that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why in the BLUE HELL are you still talking to her?

Did you NOT learn your lesson already? In your mind, are you two even dating?

Do you need a firm judo chop upside the head? Weren't you there a whole week and had the worst week ever of your life? I would have stopped talking to her a long time ago... I guess some people never learn. It just sounds to me that you are so irate that she "got you back", that now you're just lingering around simply so you can "pay her back" again.

Just stop it.

It's not absurd for her to tell you that, it's absurd that you even talk to her or even consider talking to her.
 
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Kailex said:
Why in the BLUE HELL are you still talking to her?

Did you NOT learn your lesson already? In your mind, are you two even dating?

Do you need a firm judo chop upside the head? Weren't you there a whole week and had the worst week ever of your life? I would have stopped talking to her a long time ago... I guess some people never learn. It just sounds to me that you are so irate that she "got you back", that now you're just lingering around simply so you can "pay her back" again.

Just stop it.

It's not absurd for her to tell you that, it's absurd that you even talk to her or even consider talking to her.
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This ^^^, especially the last sentence.

COGNAC, get a grip, man.
Back up, take a breath and engage your brain here.
You are trying to make sense out of nonsense with this twit..

Just read Kailex's post a few more times until the good sense in it makes sense to you.
 
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