Went out with that lady I know. Everything was fine, good chat, C&F, etc. BUT..! When I tried kino on her ("accidentally" touching her hand and stroking it) - no response whatsoever. Not like she was pulling back or obviously hated it, though... Anyone had that problem, too?
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No response to kino...?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I hope you did this "accidentally" more than once. If SHE thought it actually was an accident, than no effects would be noticed.
And you have to be more bold with it too, but not as much so that it's obvious.
And you have to be more bold with it too, but not as much so that it's obvious.
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Kino isn't always a big physical move on her part. It can also be very subtle, like when she brushes up against you, taps you on the shoulder, etc. Of course, this can also be something done in the normal course of things, too, so just don't interpret every movement as a come on. I admit, this post doesn't help much, but just think if there were any other "accidental" movements on her part that made contact with you.
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maybe her interest level in you wasnt high or even close.
yea..women love kino..that is..women who are already attracted to you..
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yea..women love kino..that is..women who are already attracted to you..
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I've found some girls really enjoy kino, but don't respond right away for some reason. Some are shy to touch you so they need time to feel comfortable. If she doesn't respond, it's not always a bad sign. The bad sign is if she responds negatively.
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Yes, I agree that some women, especially the shy ones will not respond immediately to kino so it is not necessarily a bad sign.
However, by the third date she should be touching you if not already getting intimate. Some women take longer than others to warm up to you. A little patience is in order.
However, by the third date she should be touching you if not already getting intimate. Some women take longer than others to warm up to you. A little patience is in order.
I used to be more aggressive with kino with this one girl, and I would put my arm around her in sort of a playful way, and I would sort of feel her kind of tightening up a little, so I backed off. Now I rarely even touch her and she's touching me more and doing more things to get my attention. So you never know. Don't jump to conclusions right away.