Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
What made me who I am today
Tonight , while i was on field enjoying festive nights i saw someone. Someone special. Two years ago , just when i found out about community , i was going out with a girl. She wouldn't let me kiss her under the pretext " not now , its early ". In the meantime , i found out about community and i started learning all this stuff. Anyway , she witnessed some of my cold approaches and things started to get cold. We stopped calling and texting each other. After a few weeks i heard that she got a new boyfriend. That hit me pretty bad. "You Don't Know What You've Got, Until You Lose It" a saying that became my reality. Now don't get me wrong , im not the type of men that cries over a girl or begs her to come back. I continued my life , sarging and approaching girls even more. And i haven't seen her from that day until .. TONIGHT.
And oh man , she was even sexier than she was before. So beautiful , brunette , hot body , cute smile and very cool personality. 10/10 for sure in all aspects. She was like "Hey DTP how are you , haven't seen you in a long time " and gave me a kiss in the cheek before going back to her boyfriend. I was inside my head once again. My head started to spin. Thoughts were bombarding my head. I was thinking about how cool it would be if i would have acted less PLAYER , i would have gotten that hottie and we would have been together till now for sure. I started to beat myself up for acting like a player and scaring her away. And i don't mean player player , im talking about creepy player , value sucker that goes from set to set to GET SOMETHING in order to please his ego. Yea thats right. Everyone that goes into this process will be at this stage. Creepy player. "You f#cktard , you could have acted nicely and have this chick for 2 years now ". Now a chode have her on his arms. And by no means im going to take her from him. I don't do this sh!t anymore.But as i was thinking , a BIG REALIZATION came.
Zero regrets for what i did until now.
Hmm , there's a big list of things that i did and hurt me or others around me.I lost many friends , many girlfriends by being creepy player. I scare girls away.When they asked me for advice i told them to FVCK OFF , because i thought they were using me and thought of me as their gay brother. When a chick asked me to help her something i gave them a ****y funny response thinking that they are testing me. Talk about misconceptions of community. I was pretty fvcked up. Every girl that was in front of me , i escalated , tried to kiss or something , resulting in scaring away girls that just wanted to befriend me and maybe hook me up with their other friends. Also , there's a big group of girls in my city that when they see me out , watch me with curiosity. "Look at him , he will do something now , he will grab a girl ... ". These girls talk sh1t about me all the time. And in a small city like mine , words spread out like a rash. Most of the girls that i've hooked up told me that they heard im a notorious player and that i shouldn't be someone they see. And the list goes on and on. But these are the things that made me. These things made me who i am. Each rejection thickened my skin. Each brake up made me stronger. Each bad word made me work harder to become a better person. So fvck all that list , im burning it virtually
. Its worthless. If i didn't do these things i wouldn't become who i am today. If she didn't stop calling me , and we started to hang out more , i would have lost interest on community and start a serious relationship with her. I wouldn't know anything outside that bubble of love. I would be the typical guy with a girlfriend. I wouldn't be the guy who makes out with 9 girls at the same club. I wouldn't be the guy that closes almost each girl within 2 minutes. I wouldn't travel almost every weekend. I wouldn't experience all these girls. I wouldn't be able to pull a girl to my house almost each week. I wouldn't be this FREE in all ways , shapes and forms. Gawd most of you guys have no idea what im talking about. Im talking about what i thought was impossible 2 years ago. When i read field reports i thought most of them were BULL$HIT. But now , these field reports are like elementary school for me. Think about it , talking to a hot girl that you have never seen in your life on the street and kissing her within 2 minutes ? Impossible ? Not really. Its a piece of cake. But of course , i wont happen anytime you try.
Im just writing this to show you what your going to go through. As Tyler said on Foundations , " The biggest players i know have something in common. They spend most of the time being creepy and tryhard on these things until one day they GOT IT and said fvck it , i don't need this sh1t and started pulling left and right ".
So guys , the point im making is that you will get hurt. You will feel like sh1t. You will curse community for being a source of pain. But keep in mind that these things shape you. These things thicken your skin. After all these rejections and painful experiences , you'll eventually become good and shake all these experiences off your body and thats when you will feel like a champ and people around you will sense it and treat you like one. Rejections happen because you feel like a nervous to talk to a stranger. And by doing it (approaching more) you eventually become comfortable meeting and talking to strangers. Than you eventually will start to pull left and right and say to yourself huh , it was so easy. Im not saying youll become good overnight. It might take 5 months. It might take a year. But most of you are +20. You have been living for 20 years like a chump. 1 year is worth it. You become good for life then. For 60 more years youll have this thing settled. All you have to do is
Make a commitment to yourself and promise that 2010 will be the year that you will do whatever it takes to get good at this.
Tonight , while i was on field enjoying festive nights i saw someone. Someone special. Two years ago , just when i found out about community , i was going out with a girl. She wouldn't let me kiss her under the pretext " not now , its early ". In the meantime , i found out about community and i started learning all this stuff. Anyway , she witnessed some of my cold approaches and things started to get cold. We stopped calling and texting each other. After a few weeks i heard that she got a new boyfriend. That hit me pretty bad. "You Don't Know What You've Got, Until You Lose It" a saying that became my reality. Now don't get me wrong , im not the type of men that cries over a girl or begs her to come back. I continued my life , sarging and approaching girls even more. And i haven't seen her from that day until .. TONIGHT.
And oh man , she was even sexier than she was before. So beautiful , brunette , hot body , cute smile and very cool personality. 10/10 for sure in all aspects. She was like "Hey DTP how are you , haven't seen you in a long time " and gave me a kiss in the cheek before going back to her boyfriend. I was inside my head once again. My head started to spin. Thoughts were bombarding my head. I was thinking about how cool it would be if i would have acted less PLAYER , i would have gotten that hottie and we would have been together till now for sure. I started to beat myself up for acting like a player and scaring her away. And i don't mean player player , im talking about creepy player , value sucker that goes from set to set to GET SOMETHING in order to please his ego. Yea thats right. Everyone that goes into this process will be at this stage. Creepy player. "You f#cktard , you could have acted nicely and have this chick for 2 years now ". Now a chode have her on his arms. And by no means im going to take her from him. I don't do this sh!t anymore.But as i was thinking , a BIG REALIZATION came.
Zero regrets for what i did until now.
Hmm , there's a big list of things that i did and hurt me or others around me.I lost many friends , many girlfriends by being creepy player. I scare girls away.When they asked me for advice i told them to FVCK OFF , because i thought they were using me and thought of me as their gay brother. When a chick asked me to help her something i gave them a ****y funny response thinking that they are testing me. Talk about misconceptions of community. I was pretty fvcked up. Every girl that was in front of me , i escalated , tried to kiss or something , resulting in scaring away girls that just wanted to befriend me and maybe hook me up with their other friends. Also , there's a big group of girls in my city that when they see me out , watch me with curiosity. "Look at him , he will do something now , he will grab a girl ... ". These girls talk sh1t about me all the time. And in a small city like mine , words spread out like a rash. Most of the girls that i've hooked up told me that they heard im a notorious player and that i shouldn't be someone they see. And the list goes on and on. But these are the things that made me. These things made me who i am. Each rejection thickened my skin. Each brake up made me stronger. Each bad word made me work harder to become a better person. So fvck all that list , im burning it virtually
. Its worthless. If i didn't do these things i wouldn't become who i am today. If she didn't stop calling me , and we started to hang out more , i would have lost interest on community and start a serious relationship with her. I wouldn't know anything outside that bubble of love. I would be the typical guy with a girlfriend. I wouldn't be the guy who makes out with 9 girls at the same club. I wouldn't be the guy that closes almost each girl within 2 minutes. I wouldn't travel almost every weekend. I wouldn't experience all these girls. I wouldn't be able to pull a girl to my house almost each week. I wouldn't be this FREE in all ways , shapes and forms. Gawd most of you guys have no idea what im talking about. Im talking about what i thought was impossible 2 years ago. When i read field reports i thought most of them were BULL$HIT. But now , these field reports are like elementary school for me. Think about it , talking to a hot girl that you have never seen in your life on the street and kissing her within 2 minutes ? Impossible ? Not really. Its a piece of cake. But of course , i wont happen anytime you try.Im just writing this to show you what your going to go through. As Tyler said on Foundations , " The biggest players i know have something in common. They spend most of the time being creepy and tryhard on these things until one day they GOT IT and said fvck it , i don't need this sh1t and started pulling left and right ".
So guys , the point im making is that you will get hurt. You will feel like sh1t. You will curse community for being a source of pain. But keep in mind that these things shape you. These things thicken your skin. After all these rejections and painful experiences , you'll eventually become good and shake all these experiences off your body and thats when you will feel like a champ and people around you will sense it and treat you like one. Rejections happen because you feel like a nervous to talk to a stranger. And by doing it (approaching more) you eventually become comfortable meeting and talking to strangers. Than you eventually will start to pull left and right and say to yourself huh , it was so easy. Im not saying youll become good overnight. It might take 5 months. It might take a year. But most of you are +20. You have been living for 20 years like a chump. 1 year is worth it. You become good for life then. For 60 more years youll have this thing settled. All you have to do is
Make a commitment to yourself and promise that 2010 will be the year that you will do whatever it takes to get good at this.