"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got no place to be alone with G/F. My house is off limits. Her house is off limits. Motels are impossible. What are some places that provide enough privacy? I though about a friends house, but that is rarely available.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hopefully you have a car???

Don't go in the back seat.....front seat is perfect. It puts her at the right height and everything....
 

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spider_007 said:
hopefully you have a car???

Don't go in the back seat.....front seat is perfect. It puts her at the right height and everything....
Yeh, just push the back down, pull the seat back as far is it can go, and you have your self a bed!

Get on top of her and do the business. You can even grab onto the back of the seat for extra humping support.

Enjoy!
 

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Park at night. I live in the country.....Random fields are great in the summer.

In urban areas good bless disabled toilets. Cinemas.

I also use my car alot. My house is free all the time for me to use thow so its not really an issue but i have used the above.
 

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The car is coming on the summer...So right now i can't do any of the above.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Live in NYC (It's under my name)...The last option i guess would be the roof of a tall residential building. But thats the last option.
 
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