"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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killerworm51

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So I lost my virginity, and since then I have had sex with another female, but I didn't orgasm and felt pretty much nothing during sex, while the chicks got off a couple of times. I could give myself better pleasure by touching myself! Really frustrating! Anyone have any idea wtf is wrong?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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randalll

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how long did you go for with her?

no girls ever made me orgasm either. only had sex 7 times, but even so.

was still good anyway, but not what it's hyped up to be.
 

killerworm51

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At least a good 10 mins penetration both times, First time I was interrupted near the end with 'I have a boyfriend', she was prettty drunk, she ended up standing up a cuple mins after she said that and spewing in a bush. The second chick I just gave up cause I was exhausted, and getting nowhere at all. I've felt more from chicks just touching my **** through my pants before.
 

lyamdb

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Too much masturbation!
I guess you are so used to porn (or imagination) that real sex doesn't interest you anymore. At least not as much as it should.
Its going to take a while for your sexuality to re-organize itself towards reality.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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killerworm51

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Yeah im pretty sure ur right, ill havta try cutting back heaps 4 awhile then ill have sex again, wont be easy lol! i'm sure it'd b worth it though lol
 

PectoralisMajor

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what are you guys talking about - s3x is friggin awesome, maybe the girls youtr with are just 'loose' down there. try changing positions and experimenting to add some spice..
 

oakraiderz2

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Ultra thin condoms.
 

Max Power

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I've had the same problem

Three solutions

More dirty talk during sex

When you want to orgasm do it doggie.

Ask her to tell you when she's cumming.
 

Warrior74

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You're just new to it. Keep doing it and it will get better. My first time when I was 19 lasted for almost 40 mins and I felt hardly anything. I kept wondering if I was doing it wrong or if the condom was defective. Hahaha. I can laugh at all of that now. Just enjoy it..relax and keep going..you'll get there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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