No plates, lack of motivation

[TheGambino]

Guysss, been away for a while.

Too much gaming, eating and working :O

How do u guys pick yourself up to get back on track of working out and approach the ladies. I saw this brazilian beatiful girl at the gym today but I just didn't know what to say so I didn't approach. I talked to her a in a club months ago. She was with a friend though. I used to walk up and say whatever on my mind and make a smalltalk. Im social and a salesman so I can get a fun convo up easily. But I just couldn't do the approach.

I had some plates going on but I didn't make work of it due lack of motivation to work out and got more insecure, I wasn't when I was fit and working out it was in my routine. Getting to much used to gaming on my ps4 instead of taking care of myself, going out and approach girls like I used to do....

 

[logicallefty]

Take your PS4 to work and store it there if possible in a locked desk drawer or locker. The idea is so it's not at home tempting you to camp on it all night.

The online dating thing can be really good for getting back into game. Start by hitting PoF or Tinder and get some numbers and make meets and go. Don't expect anything. Just consider it warm up to get you ready for better. And who knows you may bet a lay or two out of it.

 

[rez_imotoboleht]

Try watching a few MMA fights on youtube instead of playing video games. It might help you motivate to get up and work out. There's something about seeing two fighters who've trained so hard, stepping into a ring to kick the crap out of each other, knowing that one of them is going to be the loser... it makes me feel like kind of a wuss for sitting around when I know I could be working to improve myself.

 

[Poon King]

You don't have to chase women 24/7 anyway.

However.. don't neglect your body. Stay in shape. It keeps your mind sharp and it keeps you motivated. Whenever I go too long without working out I start to get lazy and lose motivation too. You just have to snap out of it. I usually only have to push myself through one or two workouts before my motivation comes back.

Regarding the brazilian woman you didn't talk to. Its in the past. Assuming you don't live out in the sticks, you will see new women tomorrow and the day after, and the day after and the day after and the day after.. and guess what? The day after that too. B!tches are not going anywhere. And you can easily replace them.

I approach when I feel like it.. and when I don't feel like it.. I say f*ck it. Doesn't matter anyway. Where I live and work, I see hot women every day. So the urgency is just not there.

Regardless.. its easy to relax about women when you know you have the power to bring them into your life whenever you feel like it. So play your video games. Just don't stop exercising.

 

[Meisterman]

You just gotta get back out there man. I'm not sure about that tinder sh*t man. You can probably get a lay off it, I have. But just be careful about which girls you talk to. A lot of them only post their best pictures that make them look way hotter than they are. You may think you're meeting up with a 7 and you get there and she's only a 4. It's happened to me so just keep your guard up for sneaky sh*t they like to pull.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Stop playing videogames man.. that stuffs a waste of your life. As Tyler once said "You might as well be dead".