"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djweses89

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uh got a problem what if there is almost no one to even try to hook up wit in your school. For example before this year i didnt know the way of a DJ so theres alot of hot girls that im in the friend zone wit so that puts them in uncharted area. then the other girls that are single ive tryed to talk to i cant get any responses from. So my problem is how to find anyone to get wit because theres like one ive 'thought' i was talkin wit but she just completely inored me today and i know she wasnt mad because i didnt get a lil smile from her. but besides that i have no one. not sure if thres really any advice that could be givin for this kind of situation but j/w.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sammo

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Dont blame it on noone being there. There are hot chicks everywhere. Blame it on your skill set.
 

Precursor

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keep working on your dj skills..i don't believe you when you say that there aren't hot chicks available.

its hard to talk to girls you knew when you were AFC.. its hell talking to this girl i use to put on the pedestal a year back!! but i'm glad i changed myself
 
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