"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No one likes the Jerk at my school

Rint

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EVERY SINGLE DJ AT MY SCHOOL IS NOT A JERK. I know them all, i've met them all, i've seen them work. Anyone at my school whose a jerk gets their ass beat and their rep beat harder. All the DJs at my school have one things in common.
-Cool
-Confident
-nice
-manly
-highly respected.
-Funny (seems like you cant be a DJ without funny)
And trust me on this none of them use ****y & Funny some use teasing. Others just more open and forward. So i just want to tell everyone that being a jerk and ****y and Funny dousnt work where i live maybe, but maybe someone can prove to me it works. Cause all i hear is trust me it works.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CCKazi007

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There's a big differance between a jerk and an assh*le. Noone likes jerks because they're usually fake or reflect their sh*tty mood to others. Assh*les like me on the other hand are born that way, most manly men are thought to be assh0les in today's society cuz other men are so ***** whipped, so if a guy gets what he wants and hurts someone's feelings they'll be labled assh9le. (ex. NFL Players, Mike Tyson, Kobe Bryant, Chuck Norris, Brad Pitt, Donald Trump, Tucker Max, Maddox, WWII Vets) I stopped trying to be nice guy or watever, it doesn't get you anywhere cuz whatever you do someone is going to hate you for it. Why not just do what you want and not give a f*ck about what others think of you? I bet some of those "great guys" you talk about are assh_les in some way, or maybe you go to a weird highschool cuz at mine there are all kinds of kids.
 

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There is a major diffrence from the jerk you are talking about and the one that pook talks about. Your jerk is an *******.
 

Rint

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Pook says rude and selfish. I know it's just 2 traits compared to the other good ones we can agree with, but it bugs me. rude and selfish would probably repell women.
 

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****y and Funny does not = Jerk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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