"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no one is above you, no one can judge you....

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you are at the same level of every one, no one can judge you, and you cant judge no one.

Like that guy.. Jesus... said, "love the other person like you love yourself". You cant judge people, and when you start doing it you will be able to understand people better, have compassion (dont forget the 48 laws book).

When someone is above you you will have a tremendous effort to achieve that immaginare level,.. and wont get it.. because it is always above you!

Do you have an idol? Forge it! This person is a human just like you, the only difference is that he or she gets better results. Change the way you act and you will change your results, and you can even make it better than your idol.

“I caught my reflection in a spoon at the cafeteria, and I remember thinking ‘Wow, you are ridiculously good-looking. Maybe you can do that for a career.’”
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In fact I like to notice as a supplement to GWS's post; **** 'em all
 
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