"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No one ever regrets breaking up with someone else

aim22

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You just move on and forget... unless their life gets turned to sh*t after seeing someone else after you. But then they'd be only regretting their decisions after the break up, not dumping your a*s.

Agree or disagree?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrRuckus

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Ask every man who was dumped at 22 and then had her crawling back at 30.
 

JohnyTheArrow

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True.Its poker game, they bet you are looser and they are winner, if happens otherwise they try to come back or regret.Taking ex back allows her to cheat,she bet,she lost but still want the prize.

If you respect yourself you stay as winner and dont take them back,why you take back somebody who thought you are a looser ?
 

aim22

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mrRuckus said:
Ask every man who was dumped at 22 and then had her crawling back at 30.
lack of options her being 8 years older perhaps?
 
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