"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No one ever regrets breaking up with someone else

aim22

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You just move on and forget... unless their life gets turned to sh*t after seeing someone else after you. But then they'd be only regretting their decisions after the break up, not dumping your a*s.

Agree or disagree?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrRuckus

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Ask every man who was dumped at 22 and then had her crawling back at 30.
 

JohnyTheArrow

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True.Its poker game, they bet you are looser and they are winner, if happens otherwise they try to come back or regret.Taking ex back allows her to cheat,she bet,she lost but still want the prize.

If you respect yourself you stay as winner and dont take them back,why you take back somebody who thought you are a looser ?
 

aim22

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mrRuckus said:
Ask every man who was dumped at 22 and then had her crawling back at 30.
lack of options her being 8 years older perhaps?
 
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