Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I mean no offense by this, but a lot of you are sort of missing the point in my opinion. Yes, I know I haven't been here long, and I'm not arguing with the strategies used. However, you are all turning this into fvcking dungeons and dragons.

It's like, ok if I c/f here, then I'll get a +5 rapport rating which will give me a 53% chance to #close if I roll a five or higher. I like seeing people's attempts and I value improvement, but is it really worth it to analyze things that much? I don't think things warrant that much detail, or else you sound just like girls or really nerdy guys.

Just my 2 cents, even though nobody asked for it.
;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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War Against Betaism

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andreus said:
I mean no offense by this, but a lot of you are sort of missing the point in my opinion. Yes, I know I haven't been here long, and I'm not arguing with the strategies used. However, you are all turning this into fvcking dungeons and dragons.

It's like, ok if I c/f here, then I'll get a +5 rapport rating which will give me a 53% chance to #close if I roll a five or higher.
I like seeing people's attempts and I value improvement, but is it really worth it to analyze things that much? I don't think things warrant that much detail, or else you sound just like girls or really nerdy guys.

Just my 2 cents, even though nobody asked for it.
;)
hahahaha!

At first I followed the methods as a use for "crutches" if you would say, and as I got more comfortable to the situation of approaching, it eventually came naturally to me and I quit playing Dungeons and Dragons.
 

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andreus said:
I mean no offense by this, but a lot of you are sort of missing the point in my opinion. Yes, I know I haven't been here long, and I'm not arguing with the strategies used. However, you are all turning this into fvcking dungeons and dragons.

It's like, ok if I c/f here, then I'll get a +5 rapport rating which will give me a 53% chance to #close if I roll a five or higher. I like seeing people's attempts and I value improvement, but is it really worth it to analyze things that much? I don't think things warrant that much detail, or else you sound just like girls or really nerdy guys.

Just my 2 cents, even though nobody asked for it.
;)
you're right lol, but I guess the main goal is to make it become natural, like you could play in your sleep
 

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"And by the way, if you're talking about any kind of real rapport, as opposed to the pseudo-rapport which is the aim of speed seduction, you can have it one of two ways: strong and lasting raport gradually over time, or weak and fleeting rapport quickly. Or, going back to the whole half-elf thing, you can use your Skull Cap of Charm which gives you a +6 CHARISMA and instant strong rapport with women. "

- Giovanni Casanova, the moderator


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Classic :up:
 

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...Never heard of you in my life.

But, to make it feel better for you.

There's the type of person (...*ahem*, LUKE SKYWALKER *oh look! a bird!*), that will over analyze how she became uninterested, and STILL miss what the reason was. These types of people will never find anyone of worth, because they can't see though the air to the end of their nose.

Then there's the type of person that'll open the same way, talk the same way, and act the same way. Robotic in nature persay? We tend to suggest this type of person has no fvcking idea what they are doing.

And then there's the type of person that kinda knows what's going on. He can make the girl laugh, be interested, close her, whatever. He is almost there.

But there is here, and here is when you realize, fvck the woman. Being a supplement to life is a lot more beneficial then having to rely on a shaky foundation (whether it's her or YOU).

Number 1. Sort and take care of yourself. If you can't take care of yourself to every degree of comfort you require, you WILL have a relationship problem later in life.

Number 2. Hold a high standard. Nothing is wrong with meeting and enjoying the company of many women while you are looking. It's more of a chance to discover the small percentage of women that are high quality to you.

And Number 3. Learn some fvcking pick up skills. If you can't attract a horse (or a train or bus..), even if you find high quality, you won't be able to have it. Remember that. It's your reason for being here. Let me say that again. IF YOU CAN FIND WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR, BUT YOU CAN'T GET AHOLD OF IT, THEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM.

A big fvcking problem. Why? Because you did something WRONG (no, it's not her fault for not liking you). Natural attraction is what it is, natural. If you act UNNATURAL in one or more of many ways (robotic, unconfident, indecisive, unattractive, not showing some attraction to her, etc), she will pick up on it in exactly the manner you choose what to go after.

Thus, let me re-emphasize the point here. On the pickup (requires some skill), to even have a chance at what you want, you HAVE TO ACT NATURAL. If you run into high quality, you better be high quality back, because quality DOES NOT SETTLE FOR LESS THEN EXPECTATION!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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