No mr niceguy

[Levrone]

I know a girl for over a year now, never seen here, just from the internet. I never had special thoughts with her, she was just a chat buddy.

But a few days ago, she asked my phone number I thought, why is she asking my phone number just right now? What does she mean with it? Can anyone explain that to me, why a girl is asking a guy for a phonenumber. Does she likes me?

But for now, I just don't want to be the mr niceguy to her. She sometimes has problems and I help her with it. I know, it's stupid. I will become a friend/brother to her, but sometimes we discuss thinks about sex, she asked me if i was a virgin. So.. is that a proof that she doesn't look to me as a friend? Is she really interessted in me?

And how do I get rid of helping her, I think if i do that more often it will go wrong.

O yeah, another thing. She didn't call me yet. She is scared she says, she want's me to call. I said I am busy for the next couple of days, but in fact I am scared to. Not for not knowing what to say, but... never spoken to her before. Anyone got some tips for me? I am such a chicken when it comes to that. I think calling a straing girl would be much easier then calling her, because I know her for so long, but never spoken to her.

 

[Royal Elite]

Homey you better grab your balls and Man up and call the girl. If she said she is scared to call you that clearly shows you are not in friend zone. If you can procrastinating you will be in friend zone. Call her up and talk about anything, but make sure to make at least one flirty comment. As long as you give her a sign you want her you will never fall into friend zone.

 

[someperson1987]

I'm not really an expert but this time I can speak from experience.

Over analyzing by asking questions such as:
1)"does she like me",
2)"why did she say hi",
3)"nah, would she wouldn't really like me ?
(btw does any of this sound familiar)?)

This will incenerate whatever interest level she has on you. It does not matter if she was infatuated with you; you do nothing she'll GO FOR SOMEONE ELSE. I learnt this the hard way.

A really long time ago, when i was the new kid in high school,I met one girl (she was pretty much everyone at school "fantasy girlfriend") said hi in the really flirty way, should pretty much every interest sign and actually wanted to kiss me (I declined I thought she was kidding LOL) (yes I was that stupid). Ii thought they "just wanted to get to know the new kid" because i didn't know anyone in school in the school. and hence i did virtually nothing about it. Next time you know She's ICE COLD (wouldn't even talk to me when i wanted to talk to her....(I finally did something???). (btw this isnt the only time something like this happened..........took me 3 years to learn this lesson).

Sorry for all the rambling, but remember always DO SOMETHING OR THEY WILL LOSE INTEREST! (dont learn the hard way like i did.
If you need a reason, THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES

 

[DJLegion]

This is funny man, you havn't even seen her yet. Wait till you do and you get scared ****less. That's going to be funny.

It sounds weird, but I have a god mother who is 50+ years old and she got into the internet and lies to people and tells them she's 20. She just wants attention. Ask for a picture, get to talk to her on the phone, then meet up in real life asap to make sure she looks like the photo. Good luck.

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by DJLegion
This is funny man, you havn't even seen her yet. Wait till you do and you get scared ****less. That's going to be funny.

It sounds weird, but I have a god mother who is 50+ years old and she got into the internet and lies to people and tells them she's 20. She just wants attention. Ask for a picture, get to talk to her on the phone, then meet up in real life asap to make sure she looks like the photo. Good luck.

Haha lol, i got many photo's from her. She's cute. I know she's not a faker because from all the conversations I got with her.

 

[DeathDealer]

That's nice buddy. You nice guy you. She thinks of you as an internet friend. Really.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by DeathDealer
She thinks of you as an internet friend.

After a year of talking only over the internet, and having never met, I'd be inclined to agree.

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by diablo
After a year of talking only over the internet, and having never met, I'd be inclined to agree.

Yeah, but why is she asking now my phone number, and stuff like if i ever had sex before, and is she much closer to me?

 

[Mojo604]

Im in a similar situation, exept this girl I know wants me to goto her birthday at a club... she has shown mixed signals, kinda flakey, but shes no attention *****. Tonights her birthday, and she said "I think you should come"... BUT I HAVE TO GOTO WORK--****KKKKKK ************!!!.....hopefully i only get 4 hours and i can still go clubbin... she told me she was gonna get sooo drunk..and she gets 'crazy' when she drinks, and that i should go... **** i cant miss this ****... i dunno why im typing this here, ...had to tell someone..

 

[DJLegion]

Originally posted by Levrone
Yeah, but why is she asking now my phone number, and stuff like if i ever had sex before, and is she much closer to me?

Why does it matter? Just talk to her on the phone asap, then go out with her and try to run all the bases. You'll know if she's not interested fast. Stop wasting your time trying to find out if she's interested, ASSUME she is. You're probably in the friend zone...but maybe you can pull it off. Maybe she wants a lay. Who the **** cares what she wants, you know what YOU want --- go for it.

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by DJLegion
Why does it matter? Just talk to her on the phone asap, then go out with her and try to run all the bases. You'll know if she's not interested fast. Stop wasting your time trying to find out if she's interested, ASSUME she is. You're probably in the friend zone...but maybe you can pull it off. Maybe she wants a lay. Who the **** cares what she wants, you know what YOU want --- go for it.

Yeah you're right. I tried to call her last night, but she didn't pick up the phone. She said she didn't hear it. She's afraid to pick it up I guess, but I'm proud of myself that I grabbed my balls and called her .

But I have mixed feelings right now. For one part I have, and want to have a friendship with her. But for another part (don't know where that's coming from) I want a relationship with her, because she's so cute. Where I'm affraid for then, is when I date her and it doesn't turn out in something we can lose our entire friendship. I mean, if she doesn't have that feelings for me. So, should I hide this feelings and go for other girls and just be friends with her? What do you think?

 

[Sart]

LETS STOP THE INSANITY

Dude,

I know we are supposed to support each other, but sheeeeit, let em drop, act like a man or buggerr off.

At some point we have to simply call it accurately. When I first came here I was in the middle of a symp drama, not as pathetic as this but still pathetic. Half the board had differing opinions but a few simply said...STOP IT WANKKER! It worked, it workeed really well.