Yes... a DJ doesn't really obsess over anyone. However, we aren't so fortunate to have a forum full of DJs though. Some guys are just starting and trying to learn the ropes (the ones who post about crushes and stuff usually fall under this category). Sure their problems could be solved from reading thru the bible (which I understand is a mess currently? I didn't check it out for myself yet but that's what i heard) but they'd learn better if they had input from other members. Think of it this way, if u had to learn something, anything, would it be easier for u to learn if someone tossed a manual on ur lap and told u to read it or would if be easier if you had plenty of people willing to assist with the know how to be able to? Most people would learn better from the latter. Just don't sweat it man.