"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No more sexual tension? What to do?

kindasuave

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I see this girl in school, and i've had lunch with her a few times. She is really into me, but she got sick and so i haven't done anything with her yet.

She is finally getting better, and this weekend i'll seal the deal

The problem is that I haven't even made out with her yet because i've ONLY seen her sober and during the day (but she is still reaaally into me). Should I see her today and get dinner and make out with her after..?

I haven't even made out with her because i don't want to do something that she might think is weird during the day. Trust me I will fvck her this weekend, but I would like to maintain sexual tension until then...

What do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pdx1138

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Don't focus on the end result of making out with her or banging this weekend.
could backfire and often does when that's the goal.

Focus on having fun with her! Make her laugh.

Get a few drinks going. It will happen with little effort.
 

VladPatton

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pdx1138 said:
Don't focus on the end result of making out with her or banging this weekend.
could backfire and often does when that's the goal.

Focus on having fun with her! Make her laugh.

Get a few drinks going. It will happen with little effort.

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Agree 100%
 
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