"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No more Lurking

Real_Deal

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Hey Everyone

I have been lurking and and learning around here for a few weeks.

I'm amazed at how effective a lot of the suggestions here are.
I didn't realize that I was an AFC until I tried carrying myself and speaking with more confidence.

I'm in a relationship right now but even so the results of acting DJ have been dramatic. I'm getting more respect from my girlfriend at home. At work people have stopped talking over me in conversations. I'm going to continue to try out the suggestions here.

I'm in for the long haul guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nelford

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Real_Deal said:
Hey Everyone

I have been lurking and and learning around here for a few weeks.

I'm amazed at how effective a lot of the suggestions here are.
I didn't realize that I was an AFC until I tried carrying myself and speaking with more confidence.

I'm in a relationship right now but even so the results of acting DJ have been dramatic. I'm getting more respect from my girlfriend at home. At work people have stopped talking over me in conversations. I'm going to continue to try out the suggestions here.

I'm in for the long haul guys.
I found out long time ago being a AFC was the wrong way to go. I always found that being that way made me feel uneasy. I thought it was the way to go from the ladies point of view, but when I started hanging out with the guys that had DJ style I saw they had all the women. Not only that they didn't put up with none of the BS.
 

Real_Deal

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Thanks for the warm welcome everyone. It's pretty rare to get that from a forum these days.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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Welcome fellow Michigan dweller lol.

Our state is a blazing inferno one day and an icy tundra the next isn't it? ahahaha.

In anycase bro you'll find all the tips and advice you need for a succesful life around here.

Also a good thing to use in addition to this site at building a better you is the Tom Leykis radio program.

Just do a google search for it and you can listen in to his free podcasts.
 

Real_Deal

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Thanks for the tip Kontroller I'm gonna check that show out.
It's good to know that there is other life in the crazy north.
 
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