no more good girl, real life example

[Who Dares Win]

I believe its a good idea to share such episode so we can discuss or better yet get the point beyond certain facts.

Lets talk about this girl which is probably a 6.5 for a global standard, I could tell few months ago from her behaviour and body language that she was the shy girl type, not used to deal with guys nor have attention from them on a bigger scale.

She then started clubbing regularly with her friends, not club slvts but still much more experienced girls used to have guys hitting on them, flirting and then dropping such guys either when ego satisfied or a better deal was approaching.

Well now this girl at first learned how to behave through experiencing night life with her friends and now she is liking it so much that she even goes to club alone with the purpose of having guys hitting on her and have her share of attention, I heard that often she also go home with such guys.

All of us who hunt in clubs love to see decent girls alone with no friends in the middle which is an other reason why she gets twice the attention.

Sincerly Im not sure whats the point to learn from this but surely there is some.

I believe that before this change she would have been a much better long term option than now.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Male attention = nicotine
Male sexual attention = chick crack
Male sexual attention plus a good alpha rogering = heroin

 

[floydb25]

Pretty simple... you become part of your environment, and who you surround yourself with. Also, everyone loves to have power, be considered in-demand, and have control (hypocrisy and double standards included). With such a shallow society where everyone wants to fit in, be accepted, and considered "hot" and "cool" - people will go to great lengths to become "high class". And, they will abuse the power they acquire once they get there.

It's all the same... everyone starts off normal and decent - then they become fake and bad to appeal to the opposite sex AND be accepted by their peers... of which the "top dog" crowd is preferred and sought after. Of course, that's usually the fake / shallow / rude crowd.

That's why a lot of bad people are so insecure and bitter. Being themselves was ineffective, and they resent people for it... but still go on being fake and stupid.

 

[ArcBound]

Aesop: The Farmer and the Stork

If a good girl has bad friends, continues to do 'bad' things with them and does what they do, she ceases to be a good girl

It's slightly related to Rollo's fake it til you make it analysis. Even if you are just faking X, if you do it long enough X becomes a part of your personality and character.

And for us, looking at their family, friends, who they hang out with, what they do in their spare time is an indication of their own thoughts, ideals, characters, personalities.

Ever hear the quote, you are the are average of your 5 best friends?