"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No more friendzone

Al Moh.

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What is the friendzone other than another drawer people put you into? It's the AFC who sinks into this swamp of despair not being able to climb out of it. It's the Don Juan who is mysterious and always changing on his path of self-improvement that people just can't put him in ANY drawer. This is why the friendzone is nothing dangerous that you have to avoid, but rather a warning sign that you are leaving the DJ path or rather the path of constant self-improvement and update.

I noticed that all those nasty friendzones that I was still in when I came here slowly broke down as I did more and more things that people didn't expect me to do. No more cathegories!

Before I came here I was the tall, redhead computer geek. Now I am "this guy, well, you just have to see him yourself, can't really describe him."

Fear the friendzone no more. There are just two options: Sexual tension and no sexual tension. Just by being a mystery, a man, having fun and perceiving yourself as the prize you create basic attraction.

It's fun how you can create attraction out of thin air, even if the girl doesn't want to feel that way because she has some kind of morals or her slut defence is getting in the way. Hah! Never thought I would be now the guy who puts girls into his "friendzone". But no, it's rather the "no sexual tension" zone and they do have a chance of getting out of it if they behave well ;)

So the trick is constant self-improvement and mystery so that you just do not FIT into any friendzone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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