no more challenge....

[StockTrader]

The challenge of attracting women has long since faded. The initial excitment is over. Going from a nerdy kid in highschool into this cool guy in college that flirts with and goes out with attractive women, that was always my dream.

It seemed impossible many times along the way. But through persistence and alot of effort, my dreams have been realized.

Hmmmmm, now what. Sex with random women isn't all its cracked up to be. It can be pretty dangerous actually (STD's, etc). Gorgeous women really aren't even all they're cracked up to be. Besides the great bodies.....so often the "great personality" is no where to be seen.

All the guys on here should really congratulate themselves. 95% of the guys out there have no clue as to how the attraction process works. You're so far ahead of the game. If you can "figure out" the attraction process between males and females, imagine what other great goals you can accomplish.

The real goal in all of this is to simply increase your confidence level and find one great girl to spend time with.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Originally posted by StockTrader
The real goal in all of this is to simply increase your confidence level and find one great girl to spend time with.

Big, BIG 2nd there....

 

[Lee Roy Brown]

I'm not sure if your taking the p*ss or not, but it must be sad to lose the excitement of DJing.

I'm definitely here for the confidence boost and to learn some smooth techniques for getting one, or many women.

I'll also pass on some things I have found useful as well.

 

[quest]

i came here just to check what it was about.. some "PUA" on bodybuilding.com said something baout it.. so i was interested, however i already picked up often.

what i have realised is my life needs reconstructing if i'm to be successful in all walks of life. since coming in semi regularly since november, i've joint a gym, improved my diet, vastly improved my standing amongst my group of friends (going from middle ranged importance to virtually top guy). i now walk past people wanting eye contact and i immediantly look down on those too scared to give it. i have built the confidence to approach (some of the time, not every girl i see).

mainly i want to use djing to move up in the workforce (once i have my degree), and to have a happy life with a wife somewhere around the 30ish mark.

long time to go, and alotta fun on the way.

 

[xelent]

You are so right its taking me years within my own experience to work out what women want and I'm 35. I wish I had this sh;t when I was 20

So I do admire you guys at 18 and 20 working this sh;t out I'm giving this DJ boot camp & bible to my 17yr old nephew, because believe me this isnt just about pulling the birds, its about improving your life skills and getting on in life. Something I definately want my nephew to do. I've applied a few changes to it. Having been around many women of different age groups. But on the whole the theory is great and with the carrot of being attractive to women, his life will improve naturally.

TEACH THIS SH;T IN SCHOOLS LOL!!!!

 

[squirrels]

Most people when they come here are:

-Devoid of female companionship
-Devoid of passion/excitement in their lives in general

And so they erroneously put two and two together and think that female companionship will lead to passion and excitement. And it does at first, but after a while, they just realize that it's icing on the cake. It's sweet and yummy, but it doesn't fill you up.

Women aren't **** in a man's life...they're just there to enhance the experience. (and the females, don't give me sh*t for that statement, because women think the same way about men)

When people stop treating this like a job and stop treating it like their life's work, that's when they'll really start to have fun with it.

 

[StockTrader]

It's also good to be able to help other guy friends improve their standing with women. There are doctors, lawyers.....you name it out there who are clueless about women. One lawyer acquantance thinks SS is the holy grail! Yikes.

Women don't even "get it". A few weeks ago, a puerto rican women was explaining to me how she decided to get married. She initially didn't like the guy, but he persisted and the turning point was when "he put his jacket around me when I was cold". Then her opinion of him changed. And she described it as..."I don't know how attraction works...but it does".

Duh!! It's a gut level attraction. I felt like saying..."don't you know...guys that do masculine/alpha acts towards a feminine women can trigger that type of response." It's basic biology. The guy protecting a women.

Alot of John Gray/Oprah/touchy feely stuff has glossed over the true gut level biological responses. People are forgetting the basics.

Last night on Howard Stern, Carmen Electra and Dave Navarro were on. Talk about polarity. Dave is this mega alpha guy and Carmen is this super sexualized women. You feel sorry for the wussy nice guys going after a mega babe, like on the reality series Average Joe. Wake up people!!